Ok so I was with a boyfriend for 3 months, but it was my first real relationship. He was everything to me, but then rumors started circulating that he had cheated on me... I let it go because I didn't want to believe it, and after a month I broke up with him. The rumor was true and he had been sleeping with her for almost half of our relationship. Now we have been apart for almost 2 and a half months, I had cut off talking to him or coming into any contact. Now his girlfriend is coming at me like I did something wrong and telling me to " off, he doesnt want you back," and things like that. Im just so confused because sometimes he messages me saying he still loves me and that he wants me back, but in the end he always stays with her. The thing is she'll have sex with him anytime all the time, and I wasn't about to disrespect myself by letting that happen. I just don't understand, I've moved on, but it feels like he keeps on pulling me back, I just want to be happy again, like I was before I even met him.

Ignore the new girlfriend.

This little boy had no respect for you.

Find someone who cares about you, and don't feel bad about it. You deserve a happy and healthy relationship.

Use the hurt of being cheated on to push yourself further away from him.

Ignore his messages, change your number and keep his cheating butt out of your life. Happiness will follow :-)