What does it mean when a man winks at you?

Our compnay is having a product training, all new employess have to take the training class.

The sales training instructor is a cute nice gentleman, he winks at me a few times but he is VERY professional with his training. When he was training me on the new equipment, he told me he had to hold my hands, he didn't mean to touch me. He was very careful and hold my hands lightly. He was serious the entire training but after the training he told me a lot about him and his recent divorce.

He smiles at me every time I walk by I noticed he didn't do it to other women.

What do you think?

I'm not so sure the winking thing means very much... it really depends on the person themselves. As for me, I've been told I'm a flirt when it comes to women, but there are certain things I'll do to the girls that I solely have an interest in.

For now, I suggest you steer clear as he is your co-worker.

Don't be surprised, he may not be winking at you. When I 1st met my sister in law she kept winking at me. It was very odd. Mentioned it to my then boyfriend what waas going on. He said she is not winking at me, she had a tick. Don't read too much into it until he llets you know he is into you.

My male colleagues winks at me when I see them passing my way not really saying a word . So I just take that as a greeting.

If he winks at you, alone, no ones present,I'll interpret that as "You look lovely."

When he winks, is he talkng to you.. or is it a walkby?

Sounds like he may be interested in you. But do not read too much into it.
Also you need to be very careful in if it is a good idea to get into workplace relationship or not. There are a lot of drawbacks.

It's a small way of flirting. At least that is how I feel. But don't get ahead of yourself. Flirting doesn't necessarily mean he wants you. Some guys just like to see girls blush so that they can prove to themselves that they've 'still got it'. That's why a lot of men wink at women as they drive by. They have no intention of stopping or pursuing that woman. He just wants to give her those butterflies. Because, when men can do that, they feel like they can do anything. So, in short, flirting has many purposes. It could be used for finding love or it could be used for finding sex. Or it could be used to raise someone's ego. So, unless someone actually approaches you and shows you genuine interest, I wouldn't think much of it.

With this guy, he seems kind of nice. BUT... he ALSO seems seasoned. As in, he knows what he's doing and he's done this before. I'm not saying that you shouldn't pursue him if he expresses that he likes you. But don't give up the goods (i.e sex, oral sex, messing around, etc... ) for a while until you KNOW he's serious. Especially if he's a lot older than you. Because you have to think "What would an older man want with a woman that is so much younger? Why is he pursuing her and at WORK of all places?" Older men usually pursue younger women for sex and social status (so that his friends can gawk and ask "Man, you've got HER?"). Older men know what they are doing. There is no secret really to getting a younger woman. Just make her feel special and everything else will follow. Just be careful. That's all I'm saying. :)

He is not my coworker, he sells the product to our company.

Oh I of course don't fall easily, I never had a boyfriend and I won't do anything with a guy until I get married. Don't worry about me.

I just want to understand how men flirt? I don't know how to flirt myself.. LOL