View Full Version : My boyfriend of 2 years wants to meet hott girls
AmandaMont91
Jul 30, 2008, 07:33 AM
I'm going to be a senior in high school this year and my boyfriend of 2 years is going away to college this year (it's only 3 hours away). Well anyway I was on his Facebook reading messages and I read a conversation between him and his friend that my boyfriend wants his friend to introduce him to "hott girls". Should I be concerned? He has no idea I've read them yet because I'm not sure how to tell him. During our relationship we haven't broken up once and I've completely trusted him through everything. Please help! I'm nervous of what's going to happen. And I really don't want to end things with him unless I have to.
N0help4u
Jul 30, 2008, 07:45 AM
He is going AWAY to college for 2 years so I would say you can expect anything.
Long distant relationships can be hard on the best of relationships.
I would just wait it out and see where things go. Don't say anything about the Facebook.
Just watch for changes and react to them when necessary.
Sometimes guys will just say things like that because it is a guy thing and he wants to sound cool, but who knows.
Romefalls19
Jul 30, 2008, 07:57 AM
I am seeing a pattern with posts lately on here, they all seem to be snooping on their S/O's myspace or Facebook... There is a reason why msn published an article saying that online social sites are the cause to 65% of all teenage break ups. You claim to trust him but decided out of the blue to check his Facebook?
JBeaucaire
Jul 30, 2008, 09:21 AM
Let him have his Freshman year at college to do what he wants. He's going to anyway. Best if you were on board with it. If you try to control him from afar, you're just going to ruin your Senior year in HS.
talaniman
Jul 30, 2008, 10:26 AM
Forget what you read on the NET, talk to him, as LDR's are really hard on any couple, let alone young ones, and college tends to change people, and rightfully so. We all grow in reality. Talk to him honestly.