ravenman
Jul 26, 2008, 06:12 AM
I am in such pain over this so anyone with some outside thoughts please help me out. I have been dating my GF for about 4 months now we have known each other for 1 year. It is a match we had a lot in common. We had a lot of bottled emotions for each other before we started dating, things progressed fast, feelings were mutaul, we spoke about marriage and even put it on a schedule.
I am a very caring man, romantic laid back sort. I would do things like send flowers here and there or call (text) through out the day, she is a very independent woman. She became upset with me saying I was becoming clingie which is a curse of a word. I am trying to give her the space she wishes. One issue that came up is her inability to sleep when I stay over with her, she is someone that needs her sleep she says I give off a lot of heat, I have went and seeking Dr support on the issue. What is so upseting is me as she would always call me in the evening or text me, the last 2 days she has not and its bothering me a lot. I have a life but to be honest I put her up pretty high on my priorities, she has pulled back and seems distant.
One thing I do know from both our past relationships we don't cheat, I really don't think that is the issue, I just wonder if she is thinking of slowley dumping me.
I am a very caring man, romantic laid back sort. I would do things like send flowers here and there or call (text) through out the day, she is a very independent woman. She became upset with me saying I was becoming clingie which is a curse of a word. I am trying to give her the space she wishes. One issue that came up is her inability to sleep when I stay over with her, she is someone that needs her sleep she says I give off a lot of heat, I have went and seeking Dr support on the issue. What is so upseting is me as she would always call me in the evening or text me, the last 2 days she has not and its bothering me a lot. I have a life but to be honest I put her up pretty high on my priorities, she has pulled back and seems distant.
One thing I do know from both our past relationships we don't cheat, I really don't think that is the issue, I just wonder if she is thinking of slowley dumping me.