OK... Ive posted my situtation about me and my ex two weeks ago title" WHAT IS IT WITH THIS GIRL" on the relationship forum but I want to get other peoples opinion on this. This is just a recap on what's being happening since my last post. Nothing has changed. She still keep the lines of communication open. We spoke on the phone for 30 min 2 Sunday ago. She sounded really happy to talk to me and we where just reminiscing on what we both been up too during the week. We both didn't touch subject about our relationship or anything, but she keeps telling me we should hang out sometime and I shouldn't be a stranger. She's been doing all the contacting and last Thursday she calls me and hangs up which I highly doubt it's a mistake because its being happening too often. Last night I went out with my friends and I got a call from her at 3:30am which really surprised me, I didn't pick up .I really wanted to know why she called me so late so I called her Sunday night to say hi and I ask her why she called me . She said she called me by mistake. AGAIN!! I touch the subject about our relationship and she said she is not ready to get back with me and she said I still have a place in her heart and if I need anything or someone that she is still there for me.She said in able for us to get back together she has to get over everything I put her through during the time we where together and right now she cant. Last night same bull!! She called me and hung up again. Is she doing this on purpose? Or is she just seeking attention for no reason? What's her intentions?

I've Learned don't make yourself available for her. Let her call but don't answer. I'm learning that saying never let them see u sweat is true.

It's definitely NOT an accident. I've sent my ex "accidental" text messages before. It's just her way of letting you know she's thinking of you. And at the same time she wants to make sure that you're thinking of her without actually talking. It worked didn't it? You're still thinking about her and that phone call @ 3:30 in the morning.

He is playing games with you . He is doing this intentionally

There is no such thing as accidental messages! She just wants to make sure she's still on your mind... just ignore them and see what happens :-)

It's no accident.. lol

Tell her ''Take my number out of speed dial and it should help some''.

Like everyone said it was no accident. My question is if she was using a cell phone how do you dial the wrong number. I mean besides the first time you call a number on a cell phone how often do you actually dial a number instead of pressing contacts and scrolling down to the correct name then press the call button.

By having them on speed dial.
I called my police station one night about 6 times without even knowing it by having the phone in my pocket and the speed dial number bumped. I wasn't home and they kept calling my son asking what was up with me.

Thank You For All You Comments. Its Just Weired To Me How She Accidentally Dials My Number Accidentally. Its Not Like If My Number Is Her Call Button. Thnaks For Your Advice Guys!!

It Has To Be On Purpose She Doesn't Have Me On Speed Dial. She Only Has My Name On Her Contact List

OK a person that is afraid of commitment but still is obsessed/has a crush on you will dial you when out at night or late when lonely. They are usually busy the rest of the time. I have learned that there is a lack of skills on both sides here... Be assertive and write down before you call her a list of exactly what you want to know about her calling and why. Then express your exact true feelings one way are another... takes balls... and then tell her that she can tell you what she feels about you are she needs to take you completely out of her contacts.

How hard is it to change a phone number if it buys peace?

If she did it one time then maybe the accident thing could be justifiable... but more than once?! Come on! Anyone would have been more careful after that... its on purpose...

How hard is it to change a phone number if it buys peace?


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MC12545 agrees: I WOULD BUT I HAVE TO HAVE IT BECAUSE OF WORK

Ok, I said change the number, not stop carrying a cell phone.

"Hi everyone, my business line/cell number is now XXX-XXX-XXXX. I had to change it for security reasons. Be sure to update your address books, thanks!"

How about ill just ignore the calls.. I think that's better.. lol

If you are able to upload ring tones you could put one on for her specifically.
Something on the quiet side that you might not even hear when it rings
Here is a perfect one

http://www.tonebee.com/Ringtone_Maker-10cc-I%27m_Not_in_Love-mp3_ringtone_song_691377.html

To hear:
YouTube - 10 CC - I'm Not In Love (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xTYrjtgU-44)

I had the same today, She told me two days ago she doesn't want a relationship with me and that it not fair she keeps me hanging on. I was in shock when her number lit up on my phone. When I answered no one was there, abou 40 secs after I hung up I received a text from her saying "sorry about that Jo (her 3 year old) was playing with and ran off with her phone and he accidentally called my by mistake. Soory about that. I hope you are OK and feeling better..?

What do you guys think

Mike

"Dear sally, no problem at all. If you delete my number from the address book she won't do that again. Cheers."