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DocZoomy
Jul 21, 2008, 01:51 PM
Can someone tell me about my fiancé Judy? Has she been faithful to me since we started living together? Last November and December what was she trying to hide from me and in fact is still trying to hide from me?
I would like the truth.
Thanks
N0help4u
Jul 21, 2008, 03:28 PM
What does your gut instinct tell you? (Not your emotions)
What red flags have you had that makes you feel that she might have been cheating?
Sure that the things were not explainable and innocent?
What do you feel she is hiding?
What does she do that makes you feel like she is hiding anything?
starbuck8
Jul 26, 2008, 03:12 AM
May I inject some common sense here?! The questions that NoHelp asks are very relevant. You don't need someone with phychic abilities here. What you need is plain old honest communication. If you don't have that before you are married, you don't have a chance in haites.
If you already have a gut feeling that she is hiding something, then trust your gut and talk with her. Marriages these days have a very high failure rate, and you don't want to enter into that contract with any doubts. If you already have to ask someone else about the status of your relationship, you should think twice and work on communication before you walk down that aisle.