My husband has a friend that constantly calls and texts him. One night, I overheard him having what I call phone sex with her. He couldn't deny it but stated that this younger woman had self-esteem issues and he was helping her build her confidence. Every time this person has some crisis, my husband becomes the sounding board and the texts and calls become unbearable. I asked him to stop and he makes me feel awful because he doesn't have any other friends in this town. Rcently she began reaching out and trying to become friends with me but I feel that she's just doing this to keep in contact with him and spend time with him. Am I overacting, crazy or what...

Heck no! You are not over-reacting and she sounds like a very needy person. But you know what men are like. He probably doesn't notice her ploys. You should make yourself more available to him, if you know what I mean. Do something different in the sex department and he will be drawn away from 'that one'!

But you must do something quickly because I know where this is leading and you do too. Do you think he will actually go that far?

I agree with Tickle... do something to get his mind of her.