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nmpitt
Jul 21, 2008, 10:35 AM
Hi my last period was in 2006 August. My daughter just turn 1 and I am still breastfeed. I am trying to get pregnant but have had no luck I have had 4 c-section can this be the reason, does anyone have any advice for me

JudyKayTee
Jul 21, 2008, 10:40 AM
hi my last period was in 2006 august. my daughter just turn 1 and i am still breastfeed. i am trying to get pregnant but have had no luck i have had 4 c-section can this be the reason, does anyone have any advice for me



I don't have medical advice for you but in view of your other postings, why do you "need" to get pregnant right now?

And, no, I don't believe a C section has anything to do with you not getting pregnant.

Synnen
Jul 21, 2008, 10:47 AM
Are you crazy?

You're having relationship problems, your daughter is ONLY 1 year old, you're still breastfeeding, and you want to get pregnant?

You should be focusing on the children you have already--though how you've had 4 C-sections with only 2 kids is beyond me--and working on communication with your husband if you want to make your marriage work.

You should NOT be focusing on competing with his "other woman" who is pregnant, and you should NOT be trying to get pregnant to keep your man.

jensallen
Jul 21, 2008, 10:47 AM
hi my last period was in 2006 august. my daughter just turn 1 and i am still breastfeed. i am trying to get pregnant but have had no luck i have had 4 c-section can this be the reason, does anyone have any advice for me
4 c-sections could be the reason for not getting pregnant again. It may be that you may need to try a little more. You should get a checkup by a medical doctor to make sure that you are O. K..

Some times it seems to be too easy to get pregnant, but in reality after having sex there is a small percent cance that the sperm will reach the ovary where the eggs are fertilezed. It takes that little sperm 100% pluss motivation to make it that far.

Maybe you should try a few posterior elevated posions to try to hury the process up if the docter gives you a clean bill of health.

N0help4u
Jul 21, 2008, 11:18 AM
Trust me my marriage was rocky from the beginning and having babies DID NOT make a better relationship in any way whatsoever. In fact it made it easier for my ex to go around LAUGHING to people that he could trust me because I was STUCK with four kids! In the meantime he was cheating like crazy on me.

If your previous kids have not improved your marriage another one will not either.
WHY do you feel a necessity to get pregnant?

You are better off getting your life together and then deciding when the time is right about having another baby.

JudyKayTee
Jul 21, 2008, 02:02 PM
Trust me my marriage was rocky from the beginning and having babies DID NOT make a better relationship in any way whatsoever. In fact it made it easier for my ex to go around LAUGHING to people that he could trust me because I was STUCK with four kids! In the meantime he was cheating like crazy on me.

If your previous kids have not improved your marriage another one will not either.
WHY do you feel a necessity to get pregnant?

You are better off getting your life together and then deciding when the time is right about having another baby.



On a black humor note - I know why OP isn't getting pregnant. Read the other posts. He's never "home." It takes two. (I think)

Alty
Jul 21, 2008, 02:14 PM
You don't need to get pregnant, you need marriage conselling, and to figure out whether you and hubby are even going to stay together.

Get your head on straight, bringing another child into the picture will only further your problems.

Fr_Chuck
Jul 21, 2008, 06:57 PM
Yes, in your other posts your husband is sleeping with pregnant women, and/or sleeping with someone else, you know about it,

This is not going to make him come back, perhaps get you more child support if he bothers to pay.

babygirl1092
Jul 21, 2008, 09:49 PM
Okay, so let me make sure I've got this all, the man u are married to is sleeping around and she is pregnant and u know he is sleeping with the dumb... (excuse that) and u are still with him? And u still sleep with him? Sloppy seconds? Ummm that would be how stds come into the bed! And u want to get pregnant to get pregnant again by him? One question are u stupid or just golabull? Because this man made vows to u and u are going to allow him to do that! U need some help and u need to leave him soon! Stop worring about having kids and take care of the ones u have!

ang8318
Jul 22, 2008, 05:19 AM
Not that I think that you need to have another child given your situation, but one of the reasons you are having trouble getting pregnant is 1-you have not had a period since Aug. 2-you are still breast feeding, although you can get pregnant while breastfeeding it is more difficult.