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barbiechick123
Jul 18, 2008, 01:17 PM
Hey everyone, so when I'm with my best friends we always talk about the guy I like, and now yesterday she told me that she feels like I care about him more than her, and she feels bad that it seems he's the only thing making me happy [and not her] and I tried to explain to her that she's my best friends and I'll never like a guy more, but their two different feelings but she still gets upset. She also feels like a whine too much about it because I've gotten a few guys this yer and she hasn't, and I'm trying to look at it from her viewpoint but I don't see how it's a big problem, its not like that's ALL we tlk about, we also talk about her life and her crushes...



Anyhelp? Thanks :)

ylaira
Jul 18, 2008, 01:45 PM
She's just jealous of you.

love is abby
Jul 18, 2008, 01:50 PM
Take sometime and spend it specifically with her, a girls night don't talk boys at all. :)

N0help4u
Jul 18, 2008, 01:59 PM
She could feel like you are rubbing it in even if you aren't.
I know when I was in my 20's I couldn't stand hanging out with girls because their main interest was "DO you think he will like the blue eyeshadow or the green with this outfit?"
Even if you are not meaning anything by it it can get obnoxious listening to a girl crushing on a guy. I think if you just cool it with talking about him it would help a lot.

barbiechick123
Jul 18, 2008, 02:43 PM
Thanks everyone :D