Cammy21
Jul 14, 2008, 11:16 PM
Okay, first of all, I realize how paranoid I got. I've come back from not thinking and now I need help.
I have never had sex before this year. (I just turned 38 and for reasons from my past, I've just been scared--both emotionally and also because of lack of information-- to be that close to someone). I had sex for the first and only time in Feb. and after being scared that I could be pregnant (even though I was on BC pills), I stopped having vaginal sex. My boyfriend and I were trying anal sex. I know that there is minimal risk of pregnancy. I got off the BC pills in March because they were doing a number on my hormones. Since then, my cycle has been 23 days. Usually I have a four day period, but this past June, it was an 8 day period. We had unprotected anal sex (a condom is now used) a couple of times. The first time, I was scared and took EC. A few days later, we were about to have anal sex, but he entered my vaginal area (June 10th) and I stopped. I got worried and again, bought EC. I took it within five days of each other. Before you can type it...I know...stupid. Anyway, I haven't had a period at all. I have been having occasional cramps, and discharge (most of the time it's been clear..a couple of times, it was brownish). It's now, July 14th and I still haven't had a period and now, my nipples are really sore. I had a doctor's appt. on the 30th of June (the day that I should have started my period) and she ran a pregnancy test. It came back negative. This morning, I took an HPT, and that came up negative too. What's going on????? Please be kind. I know I made mistakes.
I have never had sex before this year. (I just turned 38 and for reasons from my past, I've just been scared--both emotionally and also because of lack of information-- to be that close to someone). I had sex for the first and only time in Feb. and after being scared that I could be pregnant (even though I was on BC pills), I stopped having vaginal sex. My boyfriend and I were trying anal sex. I know that there is minimal risk of pregnancy. I got off the BC pills in March because they were doing a number on my hormones. Since then, my cycle has been 23 days. Usually I have a four day period, but this past June, it was an 8 day period. We had unprotected anal sex (a condom is now used) a couple of times. The first time, I was scared and took EC. A few days later, we were about to have anal sex, but he entered my vaginal area (June 10th) and I stopped. I got worried and again, bought EC. I took it within five days of each other. Before you can type it...I know...stupid. Anyway, I haven't had a period at all. I have been having occasional cramps, and discharge (most of the time it's been clear..a couple of times, it was brownish). It's now, July 14th and I still haven't had a period and now, my nipples are really sore. I had a doctor's appt. on the 30th of June (the day that I should have started my period) and she ran a pregnancy test. It came back negative. This morning, I took an HPT, and that came up negative too. What's going on????? Please be kind. I know I made mistakes.