How to stop when I have tried so many times to get away, but he just keeps pulling my back

Oy... what a question. Right out of a bad "B" movie. [rolls eyes]

He's only able to pull you back because you let him. Stop being co-dependent. Once you've figured that out, you'll be able to stop being with him.

Keep your pants on, and stop talking to him. You do it only because you want to. So you have to really want to stop. Perhaps call his wife and invite her too, I am sure that will help stop it fast.

You choose who to sleep with. It's that simple. Maybe not easy, but seriously... time to own it.

Your language sounds like that of a victim... he does this to you... you try to get away.

That doesn't fly here. You choose this. You let it happen. You need to own it. He has nothing to do with you letting him in you. Your choice.

You get the respect you demand for yourself and sometimes you don't even get that. So how much respect do you demand from him and from yourself?

Feel free to explain why this is happening.

He's married, if you were his wife how would you feel being cheated on, you can always do better than a man like that

Delete his number and his email, ignore him, keep your pants on, confess to his wife?

Someone can't pull you back unless you are willing to be pulled back.

If you want out the only and best way is cold turkey.

How to stop when I have tried so many times to get away, but he just keeps pulling my back

That yo-yo sexuality effect is in your mind... you allow him to pull you back because you are evidently attached to him in more than a sexual way.

Only you can break away from this... IF you really want to!!

Irulan,

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How to stop when I have tried so many times to get away, but he just keeps pulling my back
Perhaps you are in love with him.

She got all the good avices and feels sorry, that's why she doesn't resopnd, Thanks.