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carlos10hotty
Jul 8, 2008, 09:10 AM
Excuse me I've had unprotected sex 5 times with guys and I'm a guy do you think I have an std?
George_1950
Jul 8, 2008, 09:15 AM
Welcome to AMHD. “Reducing your number of sexual partners, and using condoms correctly and consistently, makes it less likely you'll get a sexually transmitted infection such as HIV.” see: SAFER SEX IN THE CITY (http://www.nyc.gov/html/doh/html/pr2008/pr044-08.shtml)
carlos10hotty
Jul 8, 2008, 09:18 AM
Mmm yeah but what if they where all clean? Can I still get something?
kp2171
Jul 8, 2008, 09:49 AM
Why do you ask?
And sexually transmitted diseases come from people with STD's... just not sure exactly what you think you will contract from a "clean" person?
It is true that certain STD's can be transmitted by routes that don't involve sex... but how are you expecting to get an STD from having sex with a "clean" partner? From an asymptomatic parter, I get that... but from a partner who is not a carrier?. again, why are you asking?
And why in the world you are doing this without protection is beyond me. It is a careless and reckless disregard for your own body. Use protection. It is not 100% effective and no substitute for engaging in sex only with partners whose sexual health you know (not believe) and who are vested in the relationship emotionally, but some protection is certainly better than none. A man who has sex with another person assumes the real risks of his behavior by his own choice, and nobody but you are accountable for your own sexual health.
A partner who thinks he is "clean" may not be. Have all your partners been tested? Have you seen the paperwork? Don't assume anything. I have a good friend who contracted herpes somewhere along the way and has no idea who was the carrier. It didn't present as the common blisters until she was under great stress sometimes later and was only then tested.
Fr_Chuck
Jul 8, 2008, 10:11 AM
Of course you can't just "look" and know someone is clean or not, and often those having unprotected sex with others will not know thierself
The only way to know is to be tested for the variety of STD you can get.
But if you continue to have sex with a lot of varoius people, with no protection, yes you will get one or several