OK my ex boyfriend broke up with me about a month or so ago for a girl on the internet in Texas and he said he wanted nothing to do with me and wanted to just forget about me. So I decided OK that's the way he wants so I went on. Couple weeks later he gets my cell # and starts texting me and tells everybody that we are friends now. So that threw me off.
Then he starts asking questions like do you miss what we used to have? are you coming over when you come home? And would you ever want me back? And he tells me that he's thinking about me and what we used to have together and he says he thinks about it when he's alone in bed at night.
But when he asked if I was coming over when I came home from my vacation he said he didn't want to be bothered. So I'm really confused now. Is he trying to sortof admit he made a mistake and wants me back? Or is he just messing with me? I don't know what's going on at all.

Is your ex wanting you back? Possibly... but probably because he misses the company.

Is your ex messing with you? Absolutely.

Drop this kid. Not worth it.

He wants you to tickle his ego.
He wants to here you say yes, yes, yes,
Then IF he does 'take you back' that will be the way he tells it to others more than likely.

Think about how easily he hurt you and how easily you COULD go back with him and how easily he could dump you for a girl in California, or a girl in Florida, or the girl right down the street.

I would tell him that the way he let you go so easily for some cyberspace girl you have NO desire to get back into something that must not have been real to him.

Now if you want revenge (what can I say, I'm vengeful), tell him, "Sorry...dating a guy in London."

I guess the INTERNET thing didn't work so good, so he wants to comeback to his old faithful standby. You don't need him, and don't be confused because he is. Let him stew in his own juice, and don't respond to his calls or texts, and get something better from life. Lets face it, if he dumps you for an INTERNET chick, can you ever trust him?