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Gio_Roal95
Jul 7, 2008, 01:58 AM
There is this girl in my school and I really like her I asked if she would want to go to movies sometime and she said yes.Later on I told one of her friends if Mariah (her name) liked me then after that they said we don't know,I think they told Mariah that I asked them that question and she said do you like me? Then I said yes it felt like a bunch of bags filled with sand came off my back then I asked her if she like me she said she doesn't know. But she is going to the movies with me. I feel like I really like this girl and I need some advice so please reply A.S.A.P


Thank You,
:)

N0help4u
Jul 7, 2008, 06:10 AM
It means that she is interested in getting to know you so she can then decide if she likes you or not. Just enjoy being with her so she can see what a great guy you are and grow on her.
If you keep asking questions like do you like me you come off as insecure and clingy and then she doesn't like you because she got that impression.
So just take it slow and enjoy being friends first.

Nestorian
Jul 7, 2008, 06:26 AM
Nohelp4u is right, take it easy, try to not stress about it, and relax. There is nothing more attractive than a person who isn't all wound up, and bouncing off the walls.

As yoda said, “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.”
In other words, your fear of her not wanting you will distort your joy of just hanging, and thus turn things dark, and that's were jelousy hides in wait.

So, go out, watch a movie, have fun. Talk of all kinds of things, ask her what she likes, tell her what you like, and get to know one another. Some times this is the best part of a relationship (I mean in the sense that friends and family are in relationships with you. Not just lovers), just getting that feeling of who the heck this person really is.

Peace bro.

talaniman
Jul 7, 2008, 06:37 AM
You sound a little young, so go slow and have a good time, and don't worry about her whether she likes you or not. Her willingness to go out with you answers that question. Females never hang with fellows they are turned off by, so just concentrate on getting to know each other, and above all, have fun. The rest will take care of itself.

happy_jester
Jul 7, 2008, 06:42 AM
It means that she is interesting in getting to know you so she can then decide if she likes you or not. Just enjoy being with her so she can see what a great guy you are and grow on her. Take it slow and enjoy being friends first.

If you do EXACTLY as "N0help4u" has said,I'm quite sure that you'll have a really good friend,in this girl. :)