steph86
Jul 5, 2008, 03:08 PM
A few years back I noticed that when I come to a new place I can feel if I'm going to return, if I'm going to live there, or if I will never visit the place again.
For example, after visiting one of the Canary Islands I could feel I was never going to return (even though I loved it there), when I came to New York for the first time I felt directly I was going to live there some time in the future, after spending a weekend in a city in Europe I could sense I was going to live there. A few months later I got a job in that same city and ended up spending 6 months there.
Also, later I visited another European city on my own. I was walking down a street. I was looking at other people, the sights, the street signs. When I came to the next crossing and read the street sign I started to feel really happy. I was smiling for no particular reason. My only thought was, I'm going to live here. I'm going to live here in the future. It's hard to explain the feeling, I could just feel it.
Fast forward 3 years. I try out online dating. I meet a guy living in this city, and it turns out he lives on that same street. Coincidence? After a few months of exchanging messages online he asks if I want to come and visit him.
Have you had any experiences like these? Or do you know someone who have?
For example, after visiting one of the Canary Islands I could feel I was never going to return (even though I loved it there), when I came to New York for the first time I felt directly I was going to live there some time in the future, after spending a weekend in a city in Europe I could sense I was going to live there. A few months later I got a job in that same city and ended up spending 6 months there.
Also, later I visited another European city on my own. I was walking down a street. I was looking at other people, the sights, the street signs. When I came to the next crossing and read the street sign I started to feel really happy. I was smiling for no particular reason. My only thought was, I'm going to live here. I'm going to live here in the future. It's hard to explain the feeling, I could just feel it.
Fast forward 3 years. I try out online dating. I meet a guy living in this city, and it turns out he lives on that same street. Coincidence? After a few months of exchanging messages online he asks if I want to come and visit him.
Have you had any experiences like these? Or do you know someone who have?