I've been looking for that special guy for so long. What I mean by this is not the player type but the understanding and loving type but it just seems so hard. I have a crush on this 1 guy but he goes on about this girl he likes for vey long now but when he chats to me all he does is flirt and then goes back to yeaaa so about the girl I like I feel very confused and used up in away I just keep asking myself a question will he ever be mine will I ever find any one plzz help what should I do I'm so damn confused::confused: :confused: :(

How old are you? Where are you "shopping" for available men/boys? What are your interests?

If you have nothing else going on in your developing life except free time to think about boys, this is going to be tough. If you're still in school, then it's pretty much normal all the way around, par for the course.

ive been looking for that special guy for so long. what i mean by this is not the player type but the understanding and loving type but it just seems so hard. i have a crush on this 1 guy but he goes on about this girl he likes for vey long now but when he chats to me all he does is flirt and then goes back to yeaaa soo about the girl i like i feel very confused and used up in away i just keep asking my self a question will he ever be mine will i ever find any one plzz help what should i do I'm so damn confused::confused: :confused: :(
Well I'm 16 and I wouldn't say I shop for them but I have been told the ryt 1 will walk up to me but he hasn't also it makes me feel I don't attract boys alll my friends have guys but they are not good they are players I don't want that but because no 1 turns up does that mean they are all players?

Your only 16, it will all come in time. Many people don't meet their mate until their late 20s or later, so putting this stress on yourself now is not worth it. Just enjoy being young and have fun in school.

Stop looking for a guy, and look for friends, and activities, to have fun with. Guys just show up out of the blue at anytime, so have your fun, and be patient, and make sure he is a fun loving, happy partner for you, when he does show up. Stop pining for the one who is unavailable to you, so your attention is toward BETTER things to enjoy.

Stop looking for a guy, and look for friends, and activities, to have fun with. Guys just show up out of the blue at anytime, so have your fun, and be patient, and make sure he is a fun loving, happy partner for you, when he does show up. Stop pining for the one who is unavailable to you, so your attention is toward BETTER things to enjoy.
Thanxxxxxxxxxxxxxx u guys really helped

There Tal is again with perfect advice!

There Tal is again with perfect advice!
Lol it really did help as well :d