I'm only 15 and I discovered that I was bisexual one year ago. Anyway, I have been friends with this girl for 2 years and I'm now discovering that I have feelings for her. She does not know I'm bisexual or that I like her. I scared to tell her both because it could ruin our friendship and I don't want that. She is a great person and she is beautiful. She tells me everything and now I feel like a bad friend for not telling her I'm bisexual. She gives me hugs and once she gave me a kiss on the cheek but I don't know if she likes me or just being a friend. I always have fantasies about her. I was even so desperate to know if she likes me by lying to her and pretending to be our guy friend while I talked to her and asking her if she likes me but she would not answer. I don't know. I'm just very confused because I like her one minute and the next minute I'm in love with her. PLEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAASSE PLEASE HELP ME!! :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

It has been said on this site that a person's sexual preference is not anyone's business. If you want to find out if she is open to a relationship with you, you got to tell her. She sounds like a great friend, one you wouldn't want to lose. Maybe you could simply enjoy her company and leave her off your mental list as someone who might be available.

Are you sure you are not bisexual, but gay, and are just not ready or willing to admit it to yourself? You are awfully young to decide that you are Bi. There is nothing wrong with being gay or Bi, but you could be a little confused at this point in your life, when your hormones are raging in your body, and have a hold on your emotions.

I would hold off on telling your friend about your feelings for now, in my opinion. She may not understand, and you could lose a good friend that just might be there for you when you really need her. Don't read too much into the hugs, and the kiss on the cheek. That sounds like she appreciates having you as a friend, and you don't want to lose that.

I don't know about the love part, but caution you to go slow coming out to your friend, let alone overwhelming her with your feelings for her. I think your better served with an understanding friend, than being disappointed if she does feel the same as you. She can support you, if not love you, as you grow to know yourself better.