I started seeing a man some time ago who I had a strong attraction to, but I didn't want to get too heavily involved for various reasons, so I tried to keep it light. He, however got quite intense about it and wanted to see me more. He even told me he loved me. Finally, I have ended up with an emotional attachment that I don't feel strong enough to cope with, and I don't know if his proposed feelings for me are sincere. It is hard to talk about due to some language differences. In the beginning he was very insecure about whether I liked him, but that seems to have settled now.

How should I distance myself from this?

Truth.. . Do not let it linger.. . The longer you take to deal with this.. . The harder it will be for you and Him...

Why would you want distance from him, as the more you deal with a person, the closer you get.