Me in my girlfriend just had a baby girl about 2 mounts ago we both are married to other people and have been separated from them for well over 16 mounts now. But with the cost of divorce we just can't aford it. When my baby girl was born I was in the hosputal when it became time to fill out the paper work for the birth cirtifacte they asked if she was married she of course told the truth and was told that I was not allowed to be on the father that she would eather have to list her husband has the father or leave it blank

This rule or law has side effects and causes me as the father not to be able to use my health insurance or any other binifits that she should be intitled to and as well sense she is not her husbens child it can't be added to his.

IF I was to have had a child with a single woman their would be no question and I would be on the birth certifacate so this is just a one way law that seems to punish the woman and the baby does anyone know away around this law or if it is even a law? What can be done?

Are they legally separated?

It is very simple, she or you claim the child, and you file for visitation and to be the father though court with a DNA test, then as part of her order of child support against you, she can require you to provide medical care. I will assume this is the law in the state that you live in, those laws differ by states