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Sonador101
Jun 23, 2008, 06:44 PM
Is there a name for this feeling or relationship. Me and my best friend are like brother and sister, we aren't dating and won't be in the near future. But I feel this connection to him, like we are more than friends. I want to tell him this but I don't know how figured it be easier if I knew what I was feeling. Please help
Sonador101
Jun 23, 2008, 07:08 PM
Anyone?
bigbird213
Jun 23, 2008, 07:16 PM
Do you want to be more than friends with him?
Sonador101
Jun 24, 2008, 12:03 AM
See I kind of want to, but I can't one: cause niether he nor I are allowed to date,
Two: he's like 45 min drive away (we talk all the time though)
Three: I really am not sure he wants to be all romantic with me, he's twelve I'm 13 I mean he'll be 13 in spetember but still.
But I just want to know what my ffeeling is.
jimmymat87
Jun 24, 2008, 03:50 AM
Well if you can't date you can't date can you... Your very young just continue to be friends and see how the feelings progress over the years.. If you still feel the same way in a few years then it might be an idea to act on your feelings. In the meantime have fun and enjoy your life :) good luck
Jim.
bigbird213
Jun 24, 2008, 04:49 AM
I agree... your very young still, take time slow and see what happens in the coming years.
N0help4u
Jun 24, 2008, 06:36 AM
Since you are so young enjoy and build on your friendship now and see where it goes in the future. If nothing else you have a best friend for years to come.
JBeaucaire
Jun 24, 2008, 07:24 AM
Is there a name for this feeling..
What you're feeling is a type of love. There are several. Yours appears to be Fraternal Love.
The original Greek names for love are:
Philios love - Brotherly love, fraternal love (Philadelphia = City of Brotherly Love)
Storge love - affection, like for a puppy, or between real-life relatives
Eros love - erotic love, passion for another person (Eros is the Greek god of love)
Agape love - unconditional loving kindness for someone, or for all, godly love, selfless love
talaniman
Jun 24, 2008, 08:12 AM
Your human, and have feelings and that's normal, but there is nothing you can do about it, nor should you. Just give yourself time to understand your feelings at this time.