My Friend Is Currently Going Through Divorice And His Wife Took His Son And Refuses To Let Him See Or Call Is This Even Legal Every Time His Son Tries To Call Someone Over His House Takes The Phone And Hangs Up On My Friend Is There Anything He Can Do About This?

Go to court and get a court ordered visitation and if they don't obey it, take them back to court, until there is a court order in place there is little they can do

o.k so my husband and i are going threw a divorce but we are actually good friends and i don't want to take him to court for child support
Also i want to take my daughtet out of state(back home) and i want to see how to write up the document so i can give to him and also get it a notery

Write it on a napkin if you want, you can be great buddies, so you don't fight when you get the judge to sign the orders. So you don't want to get any formal court orders that can be inforced,
A notary only shows it was you that signed, it does not make the document any more "legal"

My Friend Is Currently Going Through Divorice And His Wife Took His Son And Refuses To Let Him See Or Call Is This Even Legal Every Time His Son Trys To Call Someone Over His House Takes The Phone And Hangs Up On My Friend Is There Anything He Can Do About This?
It should be obvious at this point that your friend's (former) wife is going to be poison; "currently going through divorce" means your friend needs his own lawyer very badly. Please advise him to get legal advice from an attorney other than his wife's lawyer.