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Raining_Tears
Jun 22, 2008, 06:53 PM
What do I do if I really like this guy but were not of the same race and I don't know if he could see through that or not... :(

Sonador101
Jun 22, 2008, 07:10 PM
OK OK OK, it does not matter what race you are OK, if you like him and he likes you then go. And ask him and if he can't see past that he isn't worth your time and effort, but I bet he doesn't care/

ladieedee21
Jun 23, 2008, 08:59 AM
Does he like you? Does he know you like him?
If he likes you.. go for it... dont matter what race he is..
If he doesn't know you like him... still go for it... talk to him.. chill.. hanqq out.. do stuff... and then ask him out..
Probably he'll end up asking you out.. Just Be yourself and have confidence.. And remeber"no it doesn't matter what race you or him are...

LillyL
Jun 23, 2008, 09:17 AM
If he dose not want to be with you due to the color of your skin he is an idiot and you don't want to have anything to do with him. Who ever you are with should love you because of your personality and who you are not your race. You should talk to him about it, you will never know unless you face it. You can spend so much time thinking about it and dwelling on it or you can just go and talk to him and find out. Try to address it in a casual way, as to not make a big deal about it so he will feel he can be honest. I cannot say how he feels about you, he will either be into you or not… it may even be that he is not interested for other reasons then race. He may really like you… the point is you will never know unless you talk to him about it. If it is too complicated to talk to him, try looking up information about body language online; see if you can figure out if he is showing signs of attraction. The body never lies… this may at least give you some idea if he is attracted to you. Hope that helps…

Fr_Chuck
Jun 23, 2008, 10:21 AM
If he can not see past color and race then he is not the type of person you need to be with anyway. But you should just address and talk to him like you would anyone else and it should not even be an issue.

liz28
Jun 23, 2008, 12:02 PM
My boyfriend and I is of different races and when I first saw him, I like him. I approach him but was scare because of our races and was not should if he would even be interested due to this issue. I put that aside and started talking to him which lead to us exchanging numbers and that was over year ago, and were still again. So don't let color interfere with at least you taking a change.