As I wrote on my last couple emails, I've been dating with this guy in two months, and feel he is not so involved with me. Upset... after couple days struggling I feel I am too tired of that and don't want to wait him to guess is he ready or not... so last night after I saw the email he send to me (tell me how's his work, what he is going to do, with nothing include activities with me. I asked Saturday to hang out with me, he did not even mention that at all.. )I asked him out for a dinner. At the dinner I directly asked him that he is ready or not for get in a relationship, of course the answer is "no". I told him, we are not on the same page, if we keep dating, we both will get unhappy, because we have different expectation. And I like back up and be his normal friend, and move on... he was agree with me from beginning. After dinner, we were walking to the subway, he start telling me that he feel little hurt that when I say I just want to be a normal friend with him, he said he likes me, but he wants to take slow. But I feel is not slow, he just don't move at all. He enjoys his single life as he said... he did not even try to get me... anyway, at the end he says that he is willing to try to get into the relationship with me, will introduce me to his friends, to open himself and let me learn more about him.. and will not activated online (he admit that he still exchange emails with other girls online, I told him I feel bad and not happy).. I was so surprised and happy he made that decision... however, today when I work, I keep thinking is that because he likes me and really want to get close to me, or just he has been pushed to do,, is there future for us... will he really going to change?

Should I give him a chance to try, or should I just let it go now, so I won't get hurt if he do things different with he said?

Also, he told me that he did not introduce me to his friends is because most of his friends know his ex... is that good excuse not introduce me to his group? His group friends were try to help him to arrange dates for him, and he did not reject them... he told me that, but he also told me I am the only one he is seeing... confuse, should I just let him go?

Please help!!

What does his friends knowing his ex have to do with you meeting them? Is he afraid that she will find out? Ask yourself these questions. Sounds like he is very confused and if you stick around you may end up hurt.

as I wrote on my last couple emails, I've been dating with this guy in two months, and feel he is not so involved with me. upset...after couple days struggling I feel I am too tired of that and don't want to wait him to guess is he ready or not...so last night after I saw the email he send to me (tell me how's his work, what he is going to do, with nothing include activities with me. I asked Saturday to hang out with me, he did not even mention that at all..)I asked him out for a dinner. At the dinner I directly asked him that he is ready or not for get in a relationship, of course the answer is "no". I told him, we are not on the same page, if we keep dating, we both will get unhappy, because we have different expectation. and I like back up and be his normal friend, and move on....he was agree with me from beginning. After dinner, we were walking to the subway, he start telling me that he feel little hurt that when i say i just want to be a normal friend with him, he said he likes me, but he wants to take slow. but i feel is not slow, he just don't move at all. he enjoys his single life as he said....he did not even try to get me...anyway, at the end he says that he is willing to try to get into the relationship with me, will introduce me to his friends, to open himself and let me learn more about him..and will not activated online (he admit that he still exchange emails with other girls online, i told him i feel bad and not happy)..I was so surprised and happy he made that decision....however, today when i work, i keep thinking is that because he likes me and really want to get close to me, or just he has been pushed to do,,,,, is there future for us.....will he really going to change?

Should I give him a chance to try, or should I just let it go now, so I won't get hurt if he do things different with he said?

also, he told me that he did not introduce me to his friends is because most of his friends know his ex...is that good excuse not introduce me to his group? His group friends were try to help him to arrange dates for him, and he did not reject them...he told me that, but he also told me i am the only one he is seeing....confuse, should i just let him go?

please help!!!
Leave him alone cause he only wants to keep u around for when he wants you (u feel me) He probably is dealing with a lot of females or his ex leave him alone u can be his friend but keep it strictly platonic and move on