OK there's a lot to this story but most doesn't matter a hole lot... we met we fell in love we got pregnant everythings great we wanted the child now come to find out she's bi-polar she keeps pushing me away... having said that she's in Chi I has to move back to MD to survive she doesn't refusse I'm the father (100% I'm the father) but wount agree to half custody 50 50.. I want to be a big part of my child's life not just travle out there when I can... and if I have to ill go move back out there with what I got but then ill be just about worthless to the child money wise... so my question is... no one refusses I'm the father can I get custody of my un born child and bring her back to MD with me I just want to know if its possible... OK just to say it she lost her other child already.. her Obgyn told me she could be a harm before and after the birth and to watch her closely and she has a long history of mental disorders... that being said I do love her and I'm so sorry I'm thinking of doing this but I'm scared and I want to be with my child as much as possible and she's not going to let me...

99.9% of the time, custody is granted to the mother.

While it is not impossible, to say it would be very difficult would be accurate.

You will have to be able to prove that she is incapable of taking care of the child, or that she is a danger to the child or herself.

Without being able to prove that, she will probably be granted custody.