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AandZ4ever
Jun 16, 2008, 11:17 AM
Hey all fellow askmehelpdeskers out there I know I am always asking about love and trying to help my friends but this one I something I never have felt before. If you have read my previous q's I am pretty much in love with this boy named jake. He is my perfect dream man in every way and everybody says we would be the cutest couple. He's the boy I get up and go to school for in the morning, your thinking what's the problem right? Well I haven't talked to jake since the beginning of the school yr and my friend angie told me that her friend who is also friends with jake named chris said jake kind of knows I like him. I always look at jake. Jake said he likes my hair to chris which is great cause I love my hair but does that even mean he likes me at all. BUT this kid chris said I was cute! That excited me but don't even know this kid chris. He is also cute but I can't decide how I feel about him. People say chris is funny and I'm not sure how I feel about him I've never spoken to him cept for one time when I said thank you cause he held open a door once but I'm not sure if it was just out of kindness. Chris is 2/3 of the time glancing at me in the halls. I never noticed till the end of the yr so it was weird. I always look at jake he's like hott. I have liked jake for almost two yrs now, and I'm not sure whether I should stop liking jake and start liking chris or what? Chris makes me curious but I take it as a step backward to like somebody completely new after I have been trying for jake, I can't just throw away my love for jake can I? By the way their seniors now, and I'm a junior. So please help me decide which guy to choose. Thank you so much cause my friends are no help at all. I'm hoping you will be<3

mafiaangel180
Jun 16, 2008, 11:22 AM
So Chris said you're cute and now your curiosity is piquéd huh? I'm sure lots more people other than Chris think your cute. You wouldn't just date them now would you? I don't know, I would suggest finding other reasons to go to school each day besides guys. I would just concentrate on you, your school work, and going out and making cool memories with your friends.

talaniman
Jun 16, 2008, 04:22 PM
Your so hooked up on this Jake and he hasn't made a move, but you kind of like this Chris dude who seems more available.

Well you could be blowing having a great time, while your stuck on someone who ain't interested, in anything but your hair, that everyone loves so much.

You could be friends to both maybe?