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RNM
Jun 15, 2008, 08:08 AM
Hey,

I have this problem with guys. First of all I am a nice girl and I'm pretty but I still have low confidence when I talk to guys I like or just making conversation with guys I like. I haven't had a boyfriend and I'm already 18 and I really am going to sound selfish here but I do look good, but I just can't get myself to open up around guys I like and actually have a relationship. All my friends know me for a bubbly girl but its when I am around guys I just go cold. How do I get over my low confidence around guys? Please help, its my biggest wish now to get a boyfriend and find love.

ladieedee21
Jun 15, 2008, 06:42 PM
Girl you can't spend your whole life like thiss.. I mean think about it.. would you really want to have this low confidence within yourself...
When having this non-confidence won't let you live your life..
In order to have a boyfriend and feel the love.. is to have that confidence...
the only answer to this question[soultion]... is for you to get up.. show who you are and be yourself.. and I'm telling you girl.. that confidence of the chick will like the guy[dem guys who really want a real chick]

Come on... rrealllyy look at this... "'you want a guy and the only way to get this is to show who you are"
=]]]

daizeebug
Jun 15, 2008, 09:15 PM
I just have to say that I completely identify with you, I used to have that problem. Only I got guys, but they weren't the right ones. My low self confidence would attract the completely wrong guys. Just try to be honest to yourself and the guys, and don't try to be someone else!