View Full Version : Should I tell him how I feel?
confusedgirl101
Jun 12, 2008, 06:55 PM
OK, so most of you already know what's up from my first question. A lot of people are telling me that I should tell him how feel. But I don't want to screw up his relationship with his new girlfriend. I got really good advice before, so lets hope for a repeat. Should I tell him how I feel? How will he react if I do? HHEELLPP!! :confused: :confused:
JBeaucaire
Jun 12, 2008, 11:54 PM
There's no rules about telling people the truth about your feelings. You can tell him. You can even tell her, if you want to be totally up front.
You just can't allow anything to actually be DONE in his direction, or allow him to do anything in YOURS, until after he has firmly established his single status again.
No cheating allowed. "But hey, if you were to find yourself completely single again, I wish you'd give me a call sometime."
mimi03
Jun 13, 2008, 09:10 PM
No, just chill out... you're sounding a little desperate. I don't mean to be harsh but this is a great time for you to be selfish and really focus on yourself.
Focus on Your goals, Your aspirations, Your hobbies or hangout with your girlfriends do something that doesn't involve this guy or dating... He has moved on for what ever reason and so should you. If/When things fall apart btwn him and his new girlfriend it may be OK then and only then to revisit this conversation but seriously for now just try to relax!