tolerance
Jun 12, 2008, 12:33 PM
Hi! I am 27 and found out I was 6 weeks pregnant yesterday by my boyfriend of almost 3 years. People ask me why I didn't know, but I really don't keep up with my period because its irregular and I have a stressfull job and thought it was the cause of my miss period.
I told my boyfriend and he's happy and this will both be our 2nd child. I have a daughter and have custody of my goddaughter. He was married previously and divorce in 1999 and have 13yr old son.
His family is mix about the pregnancy and I black and he's white, and some of his relative don't like it, mostly the older ones.
I am finding out through my boyfriend that his exwife don't like that I pregnant because she thinks it too much for there 13yr old son and mad he would have another child. Mind you we live in Calverton, li and she lives in NJ. She only allows him to see his child when convient for her. I don't interfere in there business but these are the facts and just want to give you a little insight and I have seen him cry over this and seen them interact with her, in person & phone.
He is 35 and share a private home with his parents, a mother & daughter/split house, we are getting a place by July:August, because I don't want to go where he lives because his whole family ar taking his exwife side and his mother,who used to be nice to me, is trying to make me get an abortion which I don't and she don't the plans we have made together but again thinks he is having a child too soon. I'm like what he's 13 but it's the exwife and she remarried so why does she care. I stay from them because I will tell them off and I don't want to be mean, anyone ever been in this situation or have some advice how to handle it?
Sorry it was long but if you have any questions please ask. Thanks for reading!
I told my boyfriend and he's happy and this will both be our 2nd child. I have a daughter and have custody of my goddaughter. He was married previously and divorce in 1999 and have 13yr old son.
His family is mix about the pregnancy and I black and he's white, and some of his relative don't like it, mostly the older ones.
I am finding out through my boyfriend that his exwife don't like that I pregnant because she thinks it too much for there 13yr old son and mad he would have another child. Mind you we live in Calverton, li and she lives in NJ. She only allows him to see his child when convient for her. I don't interfere in there business but these are the facts and just want to give you a little insight and I have seen him cry over this and seen them interact with her, in person & phone.
He is 35 and share a private home with his parents, a mother & daughter/split house, we are getting a place by July:August, because I don't want to go where he lives because his whole family ar taking his exwife side and his mother,who used to be nice to me, is trying to make me get an abortion which I don't and she don't the plans we have made together but again thinks he is having a child too soon. I'm like what he's 13 but it's the exwife and she remarried so why does she care. I stay from them because I will tell them off and I don't want to be mean, anyone ever been in this situation or have some advice how to handle it?
Sorry it was long but if you have any questions please ask. Thanks for reading!