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sexytavew
Jun 9, 2008, 02:08 PM
What are some way to say in talking dirty??
Synnen
Jun 9, 2008, 02:12 PM
What are WHAT?
How old are you?
sexytavew
Jun 9, 2008, 02:17 PM
I'm 21
Synnen
Jun 9, 2008, 02:29 PM
There are at least a dozen threads on these boards about talking dirty--though honestly, if you don't have anything pop into your head on its own, just about anything you say is going to sound stilted, fake, and not in the moment.
I'll tell you what I tell everyone else: Rent porn. Read erotica. Just tell your guy what you want him to do, or what you want to do to him, in great detail.
No one here is going to give you a script of dirty talk to use the next time you're in bed.
kp2171
Jun 10, 2008, 02:18 PM
What syn said.
If you cannot talk about the things you'd desire, what you fantasize about, its just going to sound scripted. Short answer is talk about your body, talk about his body, talk about taking his/your clothes off, talk about any aspect of sex you enjoy or desire. Take your time. This is a great way for you to guide him on what you want and need. If he has half a clue, he'll listen.
The only thing id mention is don't talk about something that you don't want to introduce into the sexual arena. no... talking about sexual acts doesn't equal consent, but it could introduce tension in the relationship and mixed messages if he takes your talking about sex as your wants and not just playful talk. If you stick to what you know and want you are more likely to not introduce any mixed messages and it should come more naturally.
Other threads with this topic...
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/how-talk-dirty-boyfriend-220203.html
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/talkin-dirty-219538.html