The only scene I can remember (if I didn't dream the whole thing) is an older woman in her kitchen who gets a barrel sent to her house and inside is a boy.

Does anyone remember anything about it? I've scoured the internet and can't find it. Thanks!

This one is often asked about on this site--I believe it is identified in this thread:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/movies/obscure-late-80s-early-90s-help-29623.html?highlight=konrad