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SLIM GOODIE
Jun 8, 2008, 06:54 PM
Hi I have some question when I was younger I had 3 abortion and now is trying to get pregnant and can't me and my mate stop ussing a condom trying to get me pregnant but its not working do you think something is wrong should I see a doctor!
lisa19xx
Jun 8, 2008, 07:01 PM
Hi. I don't know what's going on. Why are you trying to get pregnant with just "a mate"? And why did you have 3 abortions in the 1st place. Getting pregnant isn't easy you know. Not for everyone you should maybe see the doctor but they won't do anything until you have been trying for a certain amount of time. You can get pregnant so maybe its just not happening at the moment. I'm sure it will though.
Credendovidis
Jun 8, 2008, 07:03 PM
If you used the pill in the past it may take a couple of months to get regular again.
And indeed these abortion CAN be a reason why you can not conceive now.
I don't know how long you have been trying, but if that is longer than 6 months, just visit your gynacologist for a check-up !
Success!
staples120703
Jun 8, 2008, 09:56 PM
hi i have some question when i was younger i had 3 abortion and now is trying to get pregant and can't me and my mate stop ussing a condom trying to get me pregant but its not workin do u think something is wrong should i see a doctor!
Slim Goodie, Sometimes abortions can cause harm later down the road when trying to conceive again, but I also know a lot of people who have had more than one and who have kids, keep your hopes up and sometimes the best thing to do is stop trying to conceive, I know it sounds funny, but a lot of people have better luck when they are not stressing out about concieving, Good luck hope everything goes well
Synnen
Jun 8, 2008, 09:59 PM
If you haven't talked to a physician about it, then now is the time.
We can't give you a medical examination over the internet--you need to see someone who can.
Also, the average time it takes to conceive for most couples is a YEAR. If you haven't been trying that long, then stop stressing about it. If you HAVE been trying that long, now is the time to consult with a fertility specialist--or at the VERY least, with your OB/GYN.
And if you tell me you can't afford to see a doctor about it, I'm going to tell you that you can't afford a kid then--so see a doctor already!