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sonia98
Jun 6, 2008, 03:26 PM
:confused:I am 14 years old. My mom died 2 years ago(in a car accident) and ever since then I've been having this strange feeling of someone always watching me. I really need to know if its her and tell... her... how much I really miss her and how much I love her because growing up I never really got to see her and tell her how I feel about her:( all I want is my mom back... and if anyone out knows how to communicate with the passed PLEASE LET ME KNOW.
Thank You:) :) :)
krissyg2991
Jul 2, 2008, 08:21 PM
I would say that you need to go to your room or where ever it is that you feel her the most, sit, remove all distractions, and meditate. Just sit and breathe; clear your mind. If it is your mother, odds are she'll know how to communicate to you that it is her. (Mine always tells me that she'll come back and throw m&m's at me so I'll know it's her, lol!)
blackblue
Jul 13, 2008, 02:08 PM
I doubt your mom would be haunting you.. but she very well could be visiting you.Talk to her when you feel her around, or don't.She'll listen.She already knows you love her.She can't come back physically as your mother but she can in spirit form.Tell her to visit you in your dreams and that you wouldn't mind having her visit you.
FreeDream
Jul 31, 2008, 02:11 AM
Both krissyg2991 and blackblue have said things that I might do, in similar forms, with my own family members, and members of my passed friends.
The people I walk with, alongside myself, hold a very close connection with those that have passed on during our lives.
Several close to me, including my grandfather from my father's side of the family, as well as several pets, and two friends that were extremely dear to myself, continue even now, though less-frequently than they used to, stay in contact in some form with me.
Whether vocalizing it or not, I routinely ask my grandfather for advice; or when I'm feeling down, and my kitten isn't doing anything to help me cheer up, something of the other pets I've owned in the past flickers into my memory for no reason... attributes of them flicker about the trailer on some days, and are absent on other days.
At least one friend works hard, in whatever form he may be in, to keep me safe--no person intending harm upon me has been able to sleep in the vicinity of myself without severe nightmares.
I commune with them on a regular basis.
It is not uncommon for loved ones, as you are young enough to not fully understand how to speak back with them, to be erratic and frightening at first in what they may be wishing to convey to you. Settle down in a quiet place, a place most-familiar to yourself, and relax. Meditate a while. Think of them--of something they would say to you on a specific subject, or when you were most comfortable with them.
Sooner or later, you will make contact.
Be at peace,
Free Dream
nishantmt
Aug 8, 2008, 07:03 AM
Well can be your mom or may be your illusion. But tell you one thing if its your mom you must not communicate with her either she must be trapped in your house due to some unfulfilled desires.
What you can do is go to a temple (preferably krishna)(I think you are indian)and prey for her soul to go beyond. Only this can be done.thank you
bloodz
Aug 18, 2008, 07:04 AM
Tae di ko alm un
Alder
Aug 19, 2008, 07:21 PM
Hi, Sonia. I'm very sorry to hear of your mother's death. That's quite a lot to go through while you are growing up. That's just about how old my mom was when her mom died.
Trust that your mother will be close to you whenever you need her. There's no real trick to communicating with her. Just do it. Feel free to talk to her whenever you want, and let her know what's going on with you, and how you feel. There is an ancient story from Russia about a girl named Vasalisa. This is the story which was the origin of Cinderella. Anyway, in the original story, Vasalisa's mother died, but her mother left her a little handmade doll that she could carry around in her pocket. The doll could talk to her and give her advice about how to get through all the troubles in her life. That's just a fairy tale, of course, but it has an important message: Your mother can speak to you in an inner voice, deep inside you, that can give you direction and wisdom and help you if you are willing to listen to yourself and believe in yourself.
Blessings to you. You will find your way, believe in it.
Alder
kayla.townes
May 27, 2010, 03:51 PM
Hey my name is kayla call me at 1478 968 0766 my mom past away in the ICU march 16 2009 three days after my birthday I was there saw her when she was there dying she was only 38 and had blood cancer no one knew she had it I saw the doctors pull the cord out her mouth and broke down in tears it was wow she really gone my they put me in a differrent room my dad wald in and told me my mom was dead I past I sat in my room 4 days and cried I can't even go in into her room I get chills on my back like she's there I hear foot steps all the time I really miss her there's nothing else really to say but I love you and we can some day become best friends and talk about our love ones my number again is 1478 968 0766 we must talk to them the only way to help cross over my name is kayla townes if you have a cell phone you can text me at 1478 234 1218 got bless you and hope to hear from you soon and I'm so sorry for your loss
claud6622
Jul 1, 2011, 12:21 PM
Go where your feeling the presence most of the time take a piece of paper and write down abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz the alphabet and yes or no on the paper bye and hello and ask it its name and if it doesn't answer three times don't try to commuicate with it nomore it will make it mad if ask it if its nice if but get a pebble and put it in the middle and it will move it if it wants to and ask it if its realated to you bye oh my names claudia and I'm 11
martinizing2
Jul 5, 2011, 02:55 AM
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Jul 1, 2011, 12:21 PM
claud6622 [?]
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Go where your feeling the presense most of the time take a piece of paper and write down abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz the alphabet and yes or no on the paper bye and hello and ask it its name and if it doesnt answer three times dont try to commuicate with it nomore it will make it mad if ask it if its nice if but get a pebble and put it in the middle and it will move it if it wants to and ask it if its realated to u bye oh my names claudia and im 11
Young lady,
Google ouija and read up on it . I am sure if you understood what it can potentially do , you would not be advising people to use one.
Also that question was asked three years ago, this thread has been inactive.
arkam_bu
May 19, 2012, 03:11 AM
I am anushka mondal I will tell u how to contact with your loving mother. Every night just switch off the light, sit calmly and peacefully & meditate , don't be frighten always feel you will talk with her you are very happy. Oh yes don't move while you are meditating. If it is helpful just mail me in anuskamondal01@gmail . Com
wonderingspirit
May 29, 2012, 07:54 PM
Hi there,
I'm sorry for your loss.
This spirit you are feeling might be your mom and if it is just say hi.
If it is your mom she knows how much you love her and miss her and these feelings or her feeling like she needs to still be there could be the reason she visits. Ask for her to visit in your dreams or when you are ready you can tell her that you love her and that it's okay to pass on now to a better place.
I wish you luck and sending my prayers your way.