Well I am 25Years old working for an Investment Banking company.
It was when I was a student, doing my graduation.
Then I just using Internet. Very soon I got someone who spoke to me sweetly. A Girl from Bangkok. We became close friends. And later after some 8 or 9 Months I expressed my feelings to her and said her that I am in love with her. She acccepted my love. We both loved each one very much. She was so caring and loving. She told me everything about her. I believed in all that she said.
I used to bunk my school to chat with her on net. Got very less marks in exams. On weeekends I would enter the cyber in the morning and stayed there for 17 hours, speaking on net and reach my house late at night and get beaten from my parents for staying out for so late and never got food(she had internet connection at home and spoke to me from home). We shared this relation for about 3 1/2 years. I stuggled so much to live without her and without seeing her. Many a times I had shed blood tears thinking about the distance. But one day I decided to meet her. Searched a part time job and saved money. Worked for nights. Sacrificed my sleep and food for her.
Then reached Bangkok (first time I had ever been out of my country). There was this shocking and heart breaking thing for me. She never meet me there. Nor spoke to me when I called her up.I even went to her college. I searched for her, asked people for her by showing her picuture, and asked them if she studies in this college. I even Slept on the road outside the college waiting for her.
But she never turned up. While I was in the airport, I called her up. She only said "Forget me, sam".
Had anyone had such a disaster in their life?

Can't say that I have friend.

Ummm, perhaps you should consider what drove you to such lenghts for a girl you never met? The phrase jumping in too soon is an understatement here. Try not to confuse love and wow somebody likes me.

Oh and next time think it ALL the way through before you travel the ends of the earth looking for little miss right... whom... you've... never... seen.

Sorry,it must suck.

Sounds like she s hiding something from you. Perhaps she was trying to save you from hartach

Hi CF,

I am sorry that this happened to you. Obviously she is a cold, uncaring individual. What I suggest, and I know this is hard, is try and forget about her. The fact that she didn't even give you a reason as to why she called it off with you, is very unfair. You need to really look hard at what has happened, and know that you will find someone that will treat you with respect. I suggest you also get together with friends and go out and meet people. Maybe someone from your school?

Hi CF,

I am sorry that this happened to you. Obviously she is a cold, uncaring individual. What I suggest, and I know this is hard, is try and forget about her. The fact that she didn't even give you a reason as to why she called it off with you, is very unfair. You need to really look hard at what has happened, and know that you will find someone that will treat you with respect. I suggest you also get together with friends and go out and meet people. Maybe someone from your school?


I am no more in school now. I am working now. And am in the look out in this site for someone who has been cheated out. Because a broken heart understands another broken heart.
I know she has cheated my pure and honest love. I stayed far from her but always felt her by my side. But...
So I want to make a broken heart as mine now.

You went through an awful lot to meet that voice on the other side of the computer, and sorry it was for nothing. That's love though, work your A$$ of and go through hell, and for whatever reason they change their minds.

The Morale: Never give someone, more than you give yourself.

Put that same energy into loving yourself, as you did loving that dream.

Your results should be awesome.

Everyone here has been hurt, and all of our hearts have been broken. We are all trying to heal, it is so hard, I know. The best thing to do right now is talk it all out with us.

Everyone here has been hurt, and all of our hearts have been broken. We are all trying to heal, it is so hard, I know. The best thing to do right now is talk it all out with us.

Starlite : I did do that. Now all I want to do is look for someone who can be mine( a broken heart to be my heart).

I know, CF. And you will find that girl out there. You should take up a hobby, get an interest that you like to do (music, sports, etc), anything to get you out of the house and active. Once you do, you will start feeling better, and who knows? You may meet the girl of your dreams by being active. I would recommend not meeting anyone online right now though (not that you can't find someone nice), but I think if you are going to meet someone, you should meet them face to face. But first, you need to get out there, get into your hobbies, hang out with your friends, go out, and live life and have fun!

I know, CF. And you will find that girl out there. You should take up a hobby, get an interest that you like to do (music, sports, etc), anything to get you out of the house and active. Once you do, you will start feeling better, and who knows? You may meet the girl of your dreams by being active. I would recommend not meeting anyone online right now though (not that you can't find someone nice), but I think if you are going to meet someone, you should meet them face to face. But first, you need to get out there, get into your hobbies, hang out with your friends, go out, and live life and have fun!

Starlite: Why not on this site. All people are not dishonest here. They know what love is and understand it. They have lived with it. If I get someone nice and loving on this site (who is being betrayed by some guy), will it matter to her that we are away and can't have relation?

This story is so heart wretching and it so sad you travel outside your country to sleep on roads and search all over for her she was scaming you but it sad had to go there to find out

This story is so heart wretching and it so sad you travel outside your country to sleep on roads and search all over for her she was scaming you but it sad had to go ther to find out


I know how I have felt all these days and what I have undergone. But today, here I am looking for someone who have lost her heart and looking for a good and honest heart . Wish I get someone here.

It depends on the person. I see your point, but this is a site for people to help other people. Can two people meet on this site, start as friends and then fall for each other? I wouldn't doubt it at all. But, don't lose site that this is a site for support, not a dating site. If you happen to be talking with someone, and the two of you happen to hit it off, then that is great! But, you need to understand that this isn't a dating site. It is a support site first.

It depends on the person. I see your point, but this is a site for people to help other people. Can two people meet on this site, start out as friends and then fall for each other? I wouldn't doubt it at all. But, don't lose site that this is a site for support, not a dating site. If you happen to be talking with someone, and the two of you happen to hit it off, then that is great! But, you need to understand that this isn't a dating site. It is a support site first.


I would also be a support for someone who needs a support and someone would give me support because I need support.

WHAT!?

You mean I've been posting answers and questions here and there's little chance I'm going to get something from it?? Nobody told me that when I signed up!

Just kidding, good post Starlight.

WHAT!?!?!

You mean I've been posting answers and questions here and there's little chance I'm gonna get something from it???? Nobody told me that when I signed up!!

Just kidding, good post Starlight.

Thanks BMI... and... sorry ;)

I agree with Starlite...
We have come to this site not looking for someone to get in a relationship with, but to seek advice!. This is what this site is meant for...
Like she said you may find someone and fall in love with that person but that's not the point... If it happens AWESOME, but we're here for support...

Thanks BMI....and...sorry ;)

Starlite: I would tell you something. You never know whom would you meet and what that 'whom' would do in your life. Because there is always a special person in everybody's life. And you never know where you will find that special person.

I would also be a support for someone who needs a support and someone would give me support because i need support.

You have to offer support first, really share your advice, and your experiences, but do it because you really want to help people, not because you are looking for that 'special someone'. If that is going to happen, it will happen, naturally

You have to offer support first, really share your advice, and your experiences, but do it because you really want to help people, not because you are looking for that 'special someone'. If that is going to happen, it will happen, naturally

I do advice people. There are so many people to whom I have give the best supportive advices
1:how do I get her to open up?
2:In South Dakota do you have to have your parents consent?
3:I've told him I love him. By accident!
4:I'm torn and don't know what to do
And many more posts. And what I always advice them is to understand their love and stick to their true love. And advice them not to think from heart.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search.php?searchid=2850841,

I'm confused as in your other post your married, and that's not the picture you paint here though. What's going on here??

?weird?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search.php?searchid=2850841,

I'm confused as in your other post your married, and thats not the picture you paint here though. Whats going on here?????


I didn't understand your post. Who is Married ? I have never been married. Everything was demolished before I could reach the marriage level.

?wierd?


Sorry? What you really meant?

I think it will be in your best interest to follow her direction and forget her. She didn't have the nerve to tell you she wasn't coming, so why chase her

I think it will be in your best interest to follow her direction and forget her. She didn't have the nerve to tell you she wasn't coming, so why chase her


True. But where do you think that I can get a true and honest gir(I want to meet her online). To prove my ex girlfriend that I have found someone who is true and loves me honestly.

I dint understand your post. Who is Married ? I have never been married. Everything was demolished before i could reach the marraige level.

CF - Read this:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/academic-advising/career-travel-tourism-222716.html

This is you??

CF - Read this:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/academic-advising/career-travel-tourism-222716.html

This is you???


Ah! This one is what my friend did. He didn't knew how he need to log in all that. So he put his post to ask about his wife's career. Guys, I apologize for that. He is Sanjay and I am Rahul. Sorry for the confusion guys.

CF - Read this:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/academic-advising/career-travel-tourism-222716.html

This is you???


Starlite, how you doing now. By the way what is your age?

Still wanting my ex back. Trying to be strong

True. But where do you think that i can get a true and honest gir(i want to meet her online). To prove my ex gf that i have found someone who is true and loves me honestly.
Why don't you go out, and meet some people instead of looking for a girl online?. You can make new "real" friends and maybe find the love of your life...

& why do you need to prove anything to your ex GF?. I don't even think she cares!. Forget about her.. Your kind of obsessed & that's not healthy...

Still wanting my ex back. Trying to be strong

Can I see your picture?

why don't you go out, and meet some people instead of looking for a girl online???...You can make new "real" friends and maybe find the love of your life...

& why do you need to prove anything to your ex GF??...I dont even think she cares!!..Forget about her..Your kinda obsessed & thats not healthy...


May be true. But still I want to make myself convinced with that. Are there any dating portals online?

Can i see your picture?

NO

NO

Just wanted to see the amazing person who's been waiting for her love for long time? And just says "I dont want to give up".

I don't have any pics of me. That is the reason I put the star up.

May be true. But still i want to make myself convinced with that. Are there any dating portals online?


Convice yourself of what?. that you can find a loving, caring woman??
I don't doubt it... maybe one day you will.. But is not as easy as you think...
Do you think that by going on a dating site you will meet a person on the first day and you will fall in love?. U won't... It takes time!!

Joing Eharmony or something!

convice yourself of what??...that you can find a loving, caring woman???
i don't doubt it...maybe one day you will..But is not as easy as you think....
Do you think that by going on a dating site you will meet a person on the first day and you will fall in love??...U won't...It takes time!!!

Joing Eharmony or something!

CF - What Damaged is saying is 100% true. It takes time, and once you do meet your love, it takes work. ALL relationships take work.

If you want to good dating site, go to www.eharmony.com; just like damaged said. You will have to pay $$ but, perhaps you may find what you are looking for.

I just want to add online dating sites have worked for some people but most of the time it don't. Don't just focus on that being your only way to meet girls, you have to leave the computer and go out and mangle. You took a chance already and interacted with someone for over 3 years you don't want to go through something similar again or I agree with the above if that's your thing do it locally and don't drag the meeting and if they do then something not right.

I just want to add online dating sites have worked for some people but most of the time it dont. Dont just focus on that being your only way to meet girls, you have to leave the computer and go out and mangle. You took a chance already and interacted with someone for over 3 years you dont want to go through something similar again or I agree with the above if thats your thing do it locally and dont drag the meeting and if they do then something not right.


Let me try some dating sites, probably those sites which do ask for $$$$$. Locally I have not tried yet. Whoever I find good and charming - are engaged. So better looking for a person who have been betrayed and is looking for a good and solid relationship. Not a relation 'where you find the man being changed and apparently you change the man.'

I know of people who met good people on eharmony. I don't now how much it costs, but they are happy with the people they met, and are doing well.

It's worth a shot for you, CF. Sign up, and see how you do! Good luck!

I know of people who met good people on eharmony. I don't now how much it costs, but they are happy with the people they met, and are doing well.

It's worth a shot for you, CF. Sign up, and see how you do! Good luck!!

Are there any sites which do not ask for $$$$$. Please help me out.

I Agree.. you Have To Go Out And Mingle... meet People!.

YEA.. google " free dating sites " or something like that

Let me try some dating sites, probably those sites which do ask for $$$$$. Locally i have not tried yet.

I just saying when you joined an online site be weary and to me you take a higher risk because people can be whoever they want to be over the internet, but again my uncle tried and on the 4th try he me his wife. Also, there's is othe avenues to try around where I live they have this thing called speed dating it work for my friend. You can google speed dating and make sure you put your city so it can find places in your area. Also,I was stating ther othe means to meeting females besides online and if your not shy then get out and mangle.

Whoever i find good and charming - are engaged. So better looking for a person who have been betrayed and is looking for a good and solid relationship. Not a relation 'where you find the man being changed and apparently you change the man.'

Don't think that only females that have been betrayed are only looking for a good man. Any female with common sense wants that. It's hard just meeting your match or someone you really can share your life with and want to share their with you as well. The hardest part is just meeting someone that has time to spend with you and especially someone who wants to spend with you.

Dont think that only females that have been betrayed are only looking for a good man. Any female with common sense wants that. It's hard just meeting your match or someone you really can share your life with and want to share their with you as well. The hardest part is just meeting someone that has time to spend with you and especially someone who wants to spend with you.


I have a question here. Here (on this site) there are so many females who have been betrayed and are looking for good man and do not want to make mistakes or do not want to continue their realtion which has hurt them. Can't I find any such female and show some kind of interest in me or in what I said ?

Not reputable ones. But, in the meantime, get your friends together, and go out and meet people. Very, very important to have human interaction in person.

CF:
Why do you want to meet women who have been hurt?. Do you think they are able to love more or something like that?. seriously I don't get it...

CF:
Why do you wanna meet women who have been hurt???...Do you think they are able to love more or something like that??...seriously i dont get it...

That is an excellent point, Damaged.

CF-whether or not a woman has been hurt is irrelevant. I know you want to be somebody's knight in shining armour, but you can do that with any woman, whether she has been hurt or not. Why the big focus on someone who is hurt? Because you got hurt? I know it would be a common ground (you hurt + someone else who was hurt) but you shouldn't limit your focus or search.

CF:
Why do you wanna meet women who have been hurt???...Do you think they are able to love more or something like that??...seriously i dont get it...

Because a heart which had known and seen the realities of life is worth to be loved for me. We learn from the mistakes.

That's why you was asking for starlite picture, thinking that maybe you might can start something?

I don't think all females on this site is burned because my friend a membe and only answer people questions because believe or not she's happily married and rarly visit here.

My question to you is that you feel the need to recuse someone after they recently been hurt and once again why do you referred the internet over human interaction, maybe you should try some chat lines.

We do learn from mistakes (well, not everybody) you're right about that... but I don't think that only women that had been hurt can love... For example: I've been hurt & I'm not ready to " fall in love" or get into a relationship because I got to think about "ME" & getting out of this hole...
IDk call me dumb but I still don't understand your intentions...

That's why you was asking for starlite picture, thinking that maybe you might can start something?

I dont think all females on this site is burned because my friend a membe and only answer people questions because believe or not she's happily married and rarly visit here.

My question to you is that you feel the need to recuse someone after they recently been hurt and once again why do you referred the internet over human interaction, maybe you should try some chat lines.

I would say you are right, Liz.

CF-I, like the rest of the women here on this site, are trying to make themselves stronger, heal their pain, and perhaps get back with their ex's or not, and help other people. You are missing the point of this site: IT IS NOT A DATING SITE.

IF you start talking to someone and hit it off with them on this site then that is great! (IF THE FEELING IS MUTUAL).

Me personally... I am working on myself and my issues, and yes, I would LOVE to get my ex back... but first I need to work on me, and get myself strong. So down the road, when I am healed and ready, I can be a better woman for my parter, who ever he is.

I would say you are right, Liz.

CF-I, like the rest of the women here on this site, are trying to make themselves stronger, heal their pain, and perhaps get back with their ex's or not, and help other people. You are missing the point of this site: IT IS NOT A DATING SITE.

IF you start talking to someone and hit it off with them on this site then that is great! (IF THE FEELING IS MUTUAL).

Me personally...I am working on myself and my issues, and yes, I would LOVE to get my ex back...but first I need to work on me, and get myself strong. So down the road, when I am healed and ready, I can be a better woman for my parter, who ever he is.


Very true. But if people really have to get back to their ex, then why do they leave them at the first place. When they make someone as 'Mine', then why at all they break up and if they break up why at all they wait for that 'Mine'. Beg him/her or Please him/her.

That's why you was asking for starlite picture, thinking that maybe you might can start something?

I dont think all females on this site is burned because my friend a membe and only answer people questions because believe or not she's happily married and rarly visit here.

My question to you is that you feel the need to recuse someone after they recently been hurt and once again why do you referred the internet over human interaction, maybe you should try some chat lines.

Liz, what I would have done looking at Starlits's picture. Let me tell you that when I had proposed my gal I had not seen her. And I had not seen her for an year nor did I ask for her picutre.

How old are you again how can you propose to someone you never had any human contact with? Why are you so scare to go into the world and socialize instead of a computer , that is weird to me.

Because love and relationships can be very complicated. There can be million reasons people break up, but also when two people love each other, and realize that love for one another, sometimes they work out the issues, and get back together. Love and relationships require work, whether you chose to believe this or not, they do! Even when you love someone and they love you back, you still have to work on the relationship. You have to realize two people are not the same; there will be differences.

Issues (not matter what the issues) arise in relationships, and sometimes people break up with the ones they love, and sometimes (more often than not) these people realize after the breakup of what went wrong. They then make some changes within themselves to better themselves, and because they love the person that they were with, they want to make things work... and a lot of times this can happen.

Because love and relationships can be very complicated. There can be million reasons why people break up, but also when two people love each other, and realize that love for one another, sometimes they work out the issues, and get back together. Love and relationships require work, whether you chose to believe this or not, they do! Even when you love someone and they love you back, you still have to work on the relationship. You have to realize two people are not the same; there will be differences.

Issues (not matter what the issues) arise in relationships, and sometimes people break up with the ones they love, and sometimes (more often than not) these people realize after the breakup of what went wrong. They then make some changes within themselves to better themselves, and because they love the person that they were with, they want to make things work...and alot of times this can happen.

And in your case, it is you who need to make changes? And now is it you who had to work things with him?
Can't issues be resolved before they breakup? Someone thinks so many times before he/she falls in love, then why he/she don't think before breakup, is it because that there is always an option open to get back to the ex? They couldn' work things before but wish to work later?

And in your case, it is you who need to make changes? And now is it you who had to work things with him?
Can't issues be resolved before they breakup? Somone thinks so many times before he/she falls in love, then why he/she dont think before breakup, is it coz that there is always an option open to get back to the ex? They couldn' work things before but wish to work later?

Actually, it is both of us, my ex and me who need to make some changes, for ourselves, first. Because if we don't address our own issues, the relationship will keep on breaking. No matter how much love we have for each other.

Sometimes yes, issues can be resolved before a breakup, of course. But, there are times where they unfortunately can't, and a break-up occurs. Once a breakup occurs it can cause the two people (or just one, it depends) to realize 'hey I love this person, I love our relationship" and they look within themselves to see what possible changes they have to make within themselves (if any), and try and reconcile once they address the issues.

Or there are relationships that start great, then for what ever reason, the people don't want to be in it anymore, and they move on, realizing that they can find someone more compatible for them.

Actually, it is both of us, my ex and me who need to make some changes, for ourselves, first. Because if we don't address our own issues, the relationship will keep on breaking. No matter how much love we have for each other.

Sometimes yes, issues can be resolved before a breakup, of course. But, there are times where they unfortunatley can't, and a break-up occurs. Once a breakup occurs it can cause the two people (or just one, it depends) to realize 'hey I love this person, I love our relationship" and they look within themselves to see what possible changes they have to make within themselves (if any), and try and reconcile once they address the issues.

Or there are relationships that start out great, then for what ever reason, the people don't want to be in it anymore, and they move on, realizing that they can find someone more compatible for them.

And how do you think you have to fix the problem in your case?

I have to work on myself esteem, my jealousy, my neediness - for me and for my relationship, so I can be a better partner. I have to work on trust... and he needs to work on his own things too.

Granted, I should not have broken up with him, I did it because of fear that he would leave again (read my initial post). But, I need to work on my own issues.

I have to work on my self esteem, my jealousy, my neediness - for me and for my relationship, so I can be a better partner. I have to work on trust....and he needs to work on his own things too.

Granted, I should not have broken up with him, I did it because of fear that he would leave again (read my initial post). But, I need to work on my own issues.

And how ll he know all that?

I have to work on my self esteem, my jealousy, my neediness - for me and for my relationship, so I can be a better partner. I have to work on trust....and he needs to work on his own things too.

Granted, I should not have broken up with him, I did it because of fear that he would leave again (read my initial post). But, I need to work on my own issues.

That' good that you realize what you need to work on because anyone have their own issues. I seek help by using self help books and saw a very good therepist and she helped me a lot. Everyone has their own faults and it good when that indivual realize theirs.

And how ll he know all that?

That's the hard part... I want to contact him so badly, but I am hoping that he contacts me first.. (I know it is a cat and mouse game). Or.. I may just reach out to him, once I am in a better place within myself, and talk to him...

That' good that you realize what you need to work on because anyone have their own issues. I seek help by using self help books and saw a very good therepist and she helped me alot. Everyone has their own faults and it good when that indivual realize theirs.

Thank you Liz. It honestly took my breaking up to realize this, that I have some changing to do, and because I really love this man, and myself. For the first time in my life, I love myself, or getting there...

I also owe my realizations and working on myself to all of you. You are all so great.. Never once did any of you judge me or berate me in anyway at all. You all have given me hope, strength, and friendship... I appreciate you all more than you can imagine!

Thank you!:)

Starlite,
I too think this site is great and maybe when you have time you can read my question when I first joined. I saw a therepist secretly because no one was supportive.

Hi Liz,

Of course I will. You weren't getting support here, or from the outside?

Hi Liz,

Of course I will. You weren't getting support here, or from the outside?

I don't understand why people have physical relations before they could get married? Is love all but SEX?

I dont understand why people have physical relations before they could get married? Is love all but SEX?

Of course not. And having sex before marriage is a personal preference. Not everyone has sex before marriage. If they do, they do.

Starlite,
I too think this site is great and maybe when you have time you can read my question when I first joined. I saw a therepist secretly because no one was supportive.

Hi Liz,

I read your post. I would have been very upset too, if my boyfriend was calling a chat line. How are you doing?

You skipped class to talk to a woman online?

You flew to Bangkok based on an online conversation?

You slept on the road outside the college waiting for her?



It may be time to consider professional help in your healing.

Learning how to deal with people and the realities of the world or you could end up in an even worse place. You sound like you may be idealizing love and relationships by staying home and planning your life about a likely fantasy.

You are not alone... This is not unusual. Especcially in the internet age. But you need to sort out how to deal with real women in the real world. It can be scary, but do it one day at a time.

If this is a real post, get help fast my man. So, this will not happen again.

Can't say that I have friend.

Ummm, perhaps you should consider what drove you to such lenghts for a girl you never met? The phrase jumping in too soon is an understatement here. Try not to confuse love and wow somebody likes me.

Oh and next time think it ALL the way through before you travel the ends of the earth looking for little miss right.....whom......you've....never......seen.

Sorry,it must suck.


Umm BMI, hello... remember me,sound familiar ay?
Where have you been,mr. deserter,lol.

Ok, Ok. I cannot be mr. popular just because it sounds right.

So. hear me out.

(hmm, Thanks for the disagree, though I am puzzled by it since you even added "you're right" to your comment :-)

Anyway, often a non-politically correct and sober perspective on a topic is what I feel I owe a person - popular or not. Call it the tough love approach on matters like this.

Cfloveu, I know you are hurting, but I really think you need to talk this out with a pro.
I think this has eclipsed the reaches of online discussion. The point here is that falling in love is not always an excuse in life. John Hinckley fell in love with Jodie Foster and he is in jail now... No, you are not a danger, but I think some practical thinking will help you in the future. We must love with our hearts and minds and then make sure it is a reality.

This was not a reality. A woman who one does not know in the far east, is by all measures a suspect venture. I would be curious to know who his last relationship was and how it ended... I think you can build on these things, but make sure you look out for yourself my man... love with the right person is a powerful thing - and in time I hope it happens for you.

Ok, Ok. I cannot be mr. popular just because it sounds right.

So. hear me out.

(hmm, Thanks for the disagree, though I am puzzled by it since you even added "you're right" to your comment :-)

Anyway, often a non-politically correct and sober perspective on a topic is what i feel i owe a person - popular or not. Call it the tough love approach on matters like this.

Cfloveu, i know you are hurting, but i really think you need to talk this out with a pro.
I think this has eclipsed the reaches of online discussion. The point here is that falling in love is not always an excuse in life. John Hinckley fell in love with Jodie Foster and he is in jail now...No, you are not a danger, but I think some practical thinking will help you in the future. We must love with our hearts and minds and then make sure it is a reality.

this was not a reality. a woman who one does not know in the far east, is by all measures a suspect venture. i would be curious to know who his last relationship was and how it ended.....i think you can build on these things, but make sure you look out for yourself my man....love with the right person is a powerful thing - and in time i hope it happens for you.

Ash, you can never define who is that RIGHT PERSON. If anyone knew then that person wouldn have had a breakup.

My question to you is how are you defining "right?"

How well did you "know" this girl? Heard from her since?

Most relationships fail so we cannot be afraid to try. I just think you were stacking the cards against you from what I can tell.