I Found Out That My Husband Had Been Having An Affair With My Eldest Sons Partner, It Totally Distroyed Us And My Son And I Just Fell Apart My Daughters Where Devistated And To The Point They Even Confrunted Him. Although He Is Not Their Natural Father He Has Been With Them Since They Where Just Babies My Eldest Is Now 22 Years, We Have A Son Together Aged 10.
As The Weeks Went By I Grew A Little Stronger However He Did Not He Begged My Son To Speak With Him And He Assured Him It Was A Big Mistake And Nothing Ever Happened Between Them Just Friends Think Not!! I Do Believe That He Won Him Over And My Son Asked Me Not To Through Away 12 Years For This I Gave Him Anonther Go.
However I Have Reciently Overheard Him To A Friend That Whenever He Goes Out That What Goes On Stays There. So I Have Ended This Marriage For My Own Sanity.
I Have One Big Problem I Am In The Middle Of Opening My Own Business And I Feel That Although He Says He Still Is Willing To Help Me Get It Up And Running So I Can Have An Income Myself Is This Going To Lead To Him Making Demands And I Don't Want To Leave Him Thinking He Still Has Any Chance I Gave Him One And He Totally Abused My Trust.:(
Do You Think I Should Just Give It All Up.

The sad part is, once a cheater always a cheater and if he had respected you he would not have strayed. YOu give him up, but don't give up your chance to have your own business. You will have great satisfaction knowing you did it all yourself.