Bradshaw
Jun 4, 2008, 09:21 PM
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now , a few months ago he meet someone at work they talked but nothing happened apparently she gave him her number and he called her , when he did , he told me right away he said he was sorry and gave me her number to call her , I did she said nothing happened and the conversation ended there.
From there on our relationship went downhill I never forgive him about that and since we both work in the same place , I knew she was still around and couldn't even concentrate in my work knowing they were both in the same area of work . I keep fighting everyday and our relationship got strained I started to notice that he started to change towards me he got cold and distant the reason? He said my fights were too much .
One day I was walking with him at work and she was right in front of me , I then took the opportunity and said to him: ask her if you and her are together right in front of me . He said to her :tell her that we are not dating , to wich she reply: we are not , but he keeps talking to me specially on sundays that we work together , he is trash and I don't want anything to do with him , I ask him : is she correct about this? He said :NO she is a liar , she said that she had witnesess . After that I stayed with him but doubted even more , we got separated for a week. We got back and she saw us together , but I think that he still likes her . I am 5 years his senior and I feel ashamed going through this things . I can't trust him , he has even said that before he dated me , he was a cheater in all of his relationships . I know I fight a lot but I simply don't trust him , what can I do?
From there on our relationship went downhill I never forgive him about that and since we both work in the same place , I knew she was still around and couldn't even concentrate in my work knowing they were both in the same area of work . I keep fighting everyday and our relationship got strained I started to notice that he started to change towards me he got cold and distant the reason? He said my fights were too much .
One day I was walking with him at work and she was right in front of me , I then took the opportunity and said to him: ask her if you and her are together right in front of me . He said to her :tell her that we are not dating , to wich she reply: we are not , but he keeps talking to me specially on sundays that we work together , he is trash and I don't want anything to do with him , I ask him : is she correct about this? He said :NO she is a liar , she said that she had witnesess . After that I stayed with him but doubted even more , we got separated for a week. We got back and she saw us together , but I think that he still likes her . I am 5 years his senior and I feel ashamed going through this things . I can't trust him , he has even said that before he dated me , he was a cheater in all of his relationships . I know I fight a lot but I simply don't trust him , what can I do?