I'm 24, I've been on one group date with this guy, and 2 individual dates. And I've talked to him on the phone several times. This guy is so nice. I can't think of one thing that I don't like about him, but I just don't feel any chemistry with him. How long should I try to find that spark before I give up and say he's not the one? Is chemistry something you always have right away or can it develop overtime. I just don't want to ditch this guy when we could have had something, and I don't want to lead him on only to hurt him later. Please help

If you don't feel it just be honest about it.

... and the other side of the coin - some things just takes time. I had to keep asking a girl out 6 times before she finally "gave in". We had fun, but she was slow to warm up to me.

Now we've been married 23 years.

You've just said you can't think of one thing wrong with him... but you have... there's no chemistry... if you don't feel it then move on, just don't hurt his feelings

Thanks for the advice. You've all been really helpful