My grandma lives with me in the same house and she is driving me insane. I mean she is very hard to live with. I have to do everything her way. My husband actually enjoyes her company but says he's okay with her as long as he doesn't get too aquinted because then she'll get into his business. I want her out but don't know how to tell her nicely. She is healthy and doesn't need anyone to take care of her and she forgets that this is my house not hers. How can I tell her without her not completely being angry at me or sounding selfish?

My grandma lives with me in the same house and she is driving me insane.
Why is she living with you?
How old are you and your husband, and your grandmother?
How does she drive you insane?

Well first there is no nice way to move someone to the curb.

A couple ideas, first do things your way, remind her daily if needed whose house it is,

Tell her that she is driving you crazy bossing you around and she has to go

Yeah, what's the backstory here?

You should be ashamed of yourself!!! You should love and enjoy being around your grandmother! You know that she doesn't have many years left! You make me angry!:mad: