ckone
Jun 3, 2008, 04:28 PM
So I started dating this guy who had always been very into me. We dated for about six months and I was not in any way looking for a commitment and he knew that. For the most part, I can say that I was way out of his league. I'm 26, blonde blue eyes athletic, smart, funny- the whole package. He is 30, and a pretty inexperienced shy guy who did not date very often. I, on the other hand, am very social and attractive. Our first few dates were great and we clicked immediately. We ended up having sex one night and in my opinion it wasn't that great, but I didn't say anything. The sex continued to be kind of awkward, but we were so great with everything else that I didn't pay too much attention to it. I felt it was due to his lack of experience, so I never made a big deal out of it. However, after the first time we had sex, his calls lessened to a routine once a day, and we began seeing each other only about once a week; he always had other plans with other friends. In all my relationships, the guy has always ended up wanting to spend as much time with me as possible. I was getting irritated and told him that I didn't think I could keep dating someone who had so many other priorities and that I wanted time to hang out with him. He replied saying that I was right and he was acting like a jerk, but that he understands. He didn't even try to step up to the plate and fix it, rather he just gave up why? Also, if I had not said anything he probably would have just continued like this forever. What gives? I've never had anything like this happen before and I've dated many people in the past, It's driving me mad