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carilu
May 30, 2008, 08:12 PM
He asked me for time and I set the time limit its going to be a week I broke it off cause I said I don't want him 2 get use to a friend with benefits. Hes been trying to hug me kiss me and flirt with me, he also calls me and texts me. But he says he needs time okay! I taught time meant not spend anytime with the person to be able to make sure he is into me. Then he says he needs time to think more about me than himself okay?? Hello! I am so lost what does he mean?? He wants to hangout needs time and still calls and texts and wants to kiss me and needs time?? Huh!!

Ash123
May 30, 2008, 08:17 PM
He wants sex without responsibility.

Sikativ
May 30, 2008, 08:43 PM
He wants sex without responsibility.

The only thing I can do is word what ash said differently :P

-Sik

liz28
May 30, 2008, 10:57 PM
As long as you keep on allowing him to do whenever whatever he will always hang around you and continue to use you for his benefits.

It not to late to stop and not to allow him to do this any longer, never be anyone booty call because if a guy see that your going and willing to give it to them, they will take it until they get tired and move on to the next chick. Meanwhile he banging you and treating the next girl like a queen, at the same time.

You have a mind and use your mouth to say do. Simply don't answer the phone or text and when you see him ignore him.

talaniman
May 31, 2008, 06:20 AM
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.

Don't be confused as you have him pegged right. Give him what he asked for, all the time he needs forever, and don't even talk to him.

No way do you accept this disrespectful, demeaning behavior.

Fr_Chuck
May 31, 2008, 06:29 AM
If there is suppose to be no-contact, don't read his text, don't answer his call, don't let him hug or kiss you. Cut him off, period

JBeaucaire
May 31, 2008, 08:20 AM
No confusion. He keeps getting horny and up to now, you've been letting him "get his horny on you." It will take him a little time to find someone else to have benefits with, then he'll leave you alone more.

Isn't he awesome?