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jamesbond21
Mar 2, 2006, 07:03 PM
I told this girl that I liked her, and she smiled and said okay. The next day she did smile at me a few times and spoke. But it seem to be a little awkward.
Just wandering if she likes me back.:confused:
She is waiting for you. What else she can do? You must prove you really like her but not only words, but by deeds
fredg
Mar 3, 2006, 05:48 AM
Hi, jamesbond,
Thanks for asking a question here, and Welcome to the site.
Does every time a girl smiles at you mean she likes you? That is really the question I think you are asking.
The answer is "maybe". You will not know if anyone really likes you until you talk with them... it takes time. Many, many people are nice, in that they like to smile! Simply smiling at someone means they are being nice, polite, and showing they are a happy person.
It's good you smiled at her. Try smiling at everyone you see; keep a smile on your face, and you will be amazed at how many friends you will make fast.
Try talking with this girl, and find out if she likes you. I do wish you the very best, and good luck.
jamesbond21
Mar 3, 2006, 08:55 AM
You are right about women smiling, but I've know her her years and we do talk. So it not like I should went up to girl I didn't know and said hey I like you.
blueiman
Mar 3, 2006, 10:07 AM
That would be a NO. she does not like you. So, just move on.
Wildcat21
Mar 3, 2006, 10:11 AM
Ah Dude, you need to ask her out - ask to coffee or a drink.
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jamesbond21
Mar 5, 2006, 06:23 PM
She is more friendly to me now, than she was before I told her how I feel about her. Still not 100% convinced that she likes me the same way.
Wildcat21
Mar 6, 2006, 08:52 AM
Well freaking find out - ask her out.
jamesbond21
Mar 9, 2006, 07:17 AM
Well I screwed it all up. I really don't think she like me anyway.
tony montana
Mar 9, 2006, 07:46 AM
The girl doesn't like you move on. You told her how you feel and she didn't respond. That means NO!
Wildcat21
Mar 9, 2006, 09:38 AM
Dude - sounds like you need to work on your confidence. Women don't like Wussys. DID you talk with her?
Go to: www.askmen.com - read EVERY dating article.
www.sosuave.com - read every article.
jamesbond21
Mar 9, 2006, 09:56 AM
Yes and I told her that I still wanted to be friends.
jamesbond21
Apr 2, 2006, 04:58 PM
Well its been three weeks and I confronted her and she told me she doesn't like me just friends she says **** the ***** I'm done with women.
Women Are Nuts **** Them.
fredg
Apr 3, 2006, 03:58 AM
Hi, James,
Hang in there, and learn. Life is learning, every day, and learning about relationships takes some time.
If you have this girl for many years as you stated, then why not just ask her out, and if she says YES than that means her smiling at u means she like you, if she says NO that just remain friends... easy peasy!
Not all women are nuts... if all women are nuts and that means ALL men are nuts too...
Starman
Apr 3, 2006, 06:06 PM
Try to take all this in stride.
As men we are expected to bear the burden of having to risk rejection.
If we don't, then the alternative is being lonely.
Take your choice.
jamesbond21
Apr 8, 2006, 01:14 PM
Choosing loneliness.:(
Wildcat21
Apr 8, 2006, 02:12 PM
Dude - we told you before she doesn't like you. Quit trying move on.
You needto learn about attraction with women. Women don't want a Wussy whimpy guy ASKING HER IF SHE LIEKS HIM. QUIT ASKING THOSE QUESTIONS AND JUST ASK WOMEN TO HANG OUT WITH YOU.
NO GUY ASK A GAL IF THEY LIKE HIM. You come across as needy.
There are other women out there - you can Never pine away for one women.
jamesbond21
Apr 8, 2006, 02:39 PM
I'm not trying I told weeks ago one time. What do you mean stop trying I have stop trying.
talaniman
Apr 8, 2006, 02:55 PM
Hi james, so sad a young guy just signs off on woman just because of one!Tell you a little secret- the guys who always seem to get the pretty ladies are the ones who take a NO and move on. They don't worry about a no because they know that if they keep asking they will finally get a yes. No matter how many NO's they get their confidence in themselves never gets shaken and they forget about the last rejection with the next opportunity. After so long they have had a lot of practice talking to the ladies and that makes you even more confident!SSSSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHH! Don't let the ladies know of this old player secret! :cool: ;)
jamesbond21
Apr 8, 2006, 03:11 PM
I Agree With You!