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jessmanzano
Mar 2, 2006, 04:41 PM
My boyfriend and I broke up after 2 years last Friday.. he accused me of cheating on him and I am now left without him and with a broken heart. Are we going to get back together ? Does he still love me as much as he says he does and are we going to get married and have kids ?are we ever going to be able to work through all of our problems without his whole family getting involved? And when are we going to get back together ?
bizygurl
Mar 2, 2006, 05:18 PM
Are you looking for a psyhcic? I think there maybe a specific forum for that.
Just asking before I relay any advice. If not, I would be happy to help you if you need any advice.
Some people do not forgive cheating. Some do.
fredg
Mar 3, 2006, 05:41 AM
Hi,
Welcome to this site, and thanks for posting a question here. Were you wanting to post in Psychics?
Anyway, I am not a Psychic; just a 64 yrs old person, with a lot of experience.
You didn't mention your age. If you have had a 2 yr. relationship with this man, it looks as if he might want to move on now. Life is sometimes difficult, especially with love.
The only thing you can do is to talk with him about it. Getting married and having kids might not happen with him, but eventually you will meet someone you wants to be with you. If you really didn't cheat on him, it just might be his way of wanting to move on. I do wish you the best of luck.
Wildcat21
Mar 3, 2006, 09:14 AM
Well, did you cheat? Cheating takes on different forms? Were you out with another guy?
NO ONE should forgive cheating.
kp2171
Mar 3, 2006, 10:22 PM
If you cheated... that depends on him, I guess. But do you really want to be with a man that didn't fulfill you enough that you chose to stay? He either wasn;t enough or you were not fulfilled enough. Either way its not the right relationship.
If you didn't, that depends on you. Are you willing to marry a man who accuses you of something you didn't do?
As a guy who has been cheated on but never cheated... I'm sorry, but I'm guessing this is over. It'll hurt like heck for a long time... but the guys either knows what you did (and that just never goes away completely) or he thinks you did it when you didn't (and again... unless he's very remorseful and sorry for his mistake, it'll always be an issue in his mind)
s_cianci
Mar 10, 2006, 06:56 PM
Two years is kind of a long time to be with someone and then just break up with them out of the blue. What made him think you were cheating on him? Have you tried reasoning with him about it? Nobody can answer the questions you've posed such as are you going to get back together and when and will you stay together. However, if you desire to reconcile with him, then you'll need to talk to him about this and whatever other issues may have clouded your relationship. And yes, I do believe that there are some other issues going on as well. I think the cheating thing may just be a red herring for what's really going on. Talk to him and find out. When you do, don't be defensive or accusing. Listen genuinely to his concerns and address them truthfully to the very best of your knowledge.