Piper in FL
May 28, 2008, 07:45 AM
Hi All!
There's a man I've met a few months ago that we had instant sparks. (Both of us are older and divorced.) We talked and laughed for awhile and when I was leaving I shook his hand and told him it had been a pleasure meeting him and I hoped to see him again. He took my hand covered it with both of his and said "Oh we will." We email each other every once in awhile just causal chit chat. He's also friends with another couple I know. They ran into him last week and he told them I'm interested in her but am seeing someone right now then told them that the relationship is so-so. (Whatever that means in man talk) He also asked them to tell me this. He said he was going to but just couldn't do it. He told them he wouldn't see me as long as he's still seeing her as he doesn't cheat. I do admire that statement. He also told them things about me that I have no idea how he found out.(Nice things such as where I work now and what I did before I switched careers) So what should I do. Being out of the dating game for so long I don't know how to play it anymore. I have the opportunity to arrange to spend the day with him in a group so I stay in his mind in case he does stop seeing her. Should I email him something. Or should I just say the hell with it. This is the first man I've met that I've actually been interested in since my divorce and I really hate to say the hell with it.
Thanks for any help!
There's a man I've met a few months ago that we had instant sparks. (Both of us are older and divorced.) We talked and laughed for awhile and when I was leaving I shook his hand and told him it had been a pleasure meeting him and I hoped to see him again. He took my hand covered it with both of his and said "Oh we will." We email each other every once in awhile just causal chit chat. He's also friends with another couple I know. They ran into him last week and he told them I'm interested in her but am seeing someone right now then told them that the relationship is so-so. (Whatever that means in man talk) He also asked them to tell me this. He said he was going to but just couldn't do it. He told them he wouldn't see me as long as he's still seeing her as he doesn't cheat. I do admire that statement. He also told them things about me that I have no idea how he found out.(Nice things such as where I work now and what I did before I switched careers) So what should I do. Being out of the dating game for so long I don't know how to play it anymore. I have the opportunity to arrange to spend the day with him in a group so I stay in his mind in case he does stop seeing her. Should I email him something. Or should I just say the hell with it. This is the first man I've met that I've actually been interested in since my divorce and I really hate to say the hell with it.
Thanks for any help!