:( I am a quiet guy who isn't the smoothest at making conversation with people in general. I used to be attactrive and a lot of girls liked me but I don't know what happened to me people aren't as attracted to me as they used to be. I feel empty and I get angry when I think about these things and no matter how hard I try not to they always come back. I have days when I feel like nobody likes me. How can I be more friendly and attractive and how can I feel good throughout my day so I can appear more attractive?

Well first you need to be more confident in yourself and try to find sum thing you like doing and try being alone you'll find some 1 u like and want to be wit

Everyone feels that way at one point or another, that no one likes them. Relax, you're normal.

Lady is right, the most attractive trait is confidence. People are drawn to it. Just chill out, be yourself, and don't worry so much about whether every single person likes you or not.

Everyone feels that way at one point or another, that no one likes them. Relax, you're normal.

Lady is right, the most attractive trait is confidence. People are drawn to it. Just chill out, be yourself, and don't worry so much about whether every single person likes you or not.


Okay Thanks so much for the advice. =)

Be confident! Most girls will fall for anyone that knows where he stands. And but some peeps don't, like rockerchick_682 said. Don't let haters get you down! Focus on the peeps that like you for who you are, and remember, confidence!

I would have to say confidence is key.Even if you feel you have low self confidence "feel" that you are worth it.All it takes is the right person to come along.

:( I am a quiet guy who isn't the smoothest at making conversation with people in general. I used to be attactrive and a lot of girls liked me but I don't know what happened to me people aren't as attracted to me as they used to be. I feel empty and I get angry when I think about these things and no matter how hard I try not to they always come back. I have days when I feel like nobody likes me. How can I be more friendly and attractive and how can I feel good throughout my day so I can appear more attractive?
First of all, you need a serious confidence boost!!

:( I am a quiet guy who isn't the smoothest at making conversation with people in general. I used to be attactrive and a lot of girls liked me but I don't know what happened to me people aren't as attracted to me as they used to be. I feel empty and I get angry when I think about these things and no matter how hard I try not to they always come back. I have days when I feel like nobody likes me. How can I be more friendly and attractive and how can I feel good throughout my day so I can appear more attractive?
First of all, you need a serious confidence boost!! Without confidence, there is no way you are going to get a girl.
A good way to start a conversation is ask a question about what the person is doing. For example if a girl is by you holding a soccer ball, you could ask if she plays on the soccer team.
I don't know, don't take this the wrong way or anything.. but if you have acne or something like that you should use creams prescribed by your doctor. And a subtle not strong cologne could help.
In order to have confidence, you need to look good inside and out.

Soccerchick28

You sound just like one of my good friends (who I will call Julio, because I call him that anyways) he isn't self confident at all, when talking to a girl he tenses up, gets this goofy voice and just says really awkward things. And when he tried to ask a girl out he said "if you want do you think you could want to go see a movie or something with me? If you want, and you can pick the movie if you want" it was weird and uncomfortable for her and she of course said no. Not all amazingly hot guys get the girls. The ones who know how to arry themselves, or at least act like they know how do. It's not hard, try eye contact for a couple seconds, smile a half smile and look away. Then see what happens next:) I hope I helped