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RunDownLover
May 25, 2008, 10:08 AM
Well.. Me And My Friend Chris Have gotten Real Close Over The Past Year. I Just Moved From A Different Country And The Beginning Of The Year We Really Didn't Talk Much. I Help Him out With A girl Problem He Had And After They Were Over We Started Texting. Talking On the Phone Every night And We Told Each other Stuff I Wouldn't Tell My Best Friend. I Trust Him And He Trusts Me. He Says He Loves Me.. that I Make Him Smile. Im The Best Person Hes Ever Met. But Every time In School He Barely Talks to Me. Even If He Does Its Real Short And He Barly Looks At Me. I Feel Like Hes embarrsed to Talk Me. (MIND MY SPELLING). I've Fallen For This Boy So Hard And I Think About Him All the time. I don't Know if I'm wasting my time By Talking And Really Liking Him.. I Really Need Help About This. I Don't Ask my Friends Cus They don't Really Like Him. Im So lost. :( Thanks. XXx

JBeaucaire
May 25, 2008, 07:46 PM
Part of dating is about risk. It's also about overcoming your fear. AND it's about NOT FRETTING so much.

Worry less about his behavior, worry less about what he thinks, and just do what you want. DO what YOU want. If you have something to say to him at any time. If he acts a little weird at school, let him. YOU keep doing what you want.

No need to overthink any of this.

Your friends don't have to like him. They have to treat YOU well, though. So when it's your turn to talk and you bring him up, they need to be helpful and respectful. Point out to them when they're not.

No need to overthink that, either.