I live in U.S. I have started process for U.S. K-1 Fiancée visa. Also will have to file hardship petition because I can not afford to travel abroad. Please anyone with any info regarding this subject please help!!

Rublue,
Try looking here:

http://visajourney.com/forums/index.php?act=home

I assume that u have already met this woman? If not you may wish to wait until your health or situation improves.