Hi everyone, My husband and I have been trying to conceive since probably April 26th,2008 and after. I have been off the pill now for 3 months, and when I was on it, I started my period like clockwork every 28 days but since going off it my cycles have changed. The first month my cycle was 29 days, the second was 33 days, and the third month was 43 days! I was very stressed that month as well. I have had no idea when I've been ovulating, so we have been having intercourse probably every other day. Since then I have been feeling quesy every once in a while, my nipples have been slighty sore, and I have what seems like pms. Now I have been having some lower abdominal cramps, for the past few days along with some back cramps. They really remind me of menstrual cramps. I have also started to become slightly tired every day around the same time, but it only lasts for a little while. I am going crazy wondering and I have been testing like crazy, knowing that it may be too early:when I have tested I've gotten negatives. What do you think?

I'm an Emergency Medical Tech. (EMT) which really doesent matter much but it doesn't sound to me like much out of the ordinary with your up and down cycles. After leaving a nicely regulated hormone balance your body has to learn how to run itself which will cause ups and downs, and as far as trying to conceive for the most part you really have just started to try having children sometimes it can take months to conceive. I would make an appointment with your doctor. And try to be as stress free as possible. Stress can cause back aches cramps etc.