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gurl2gurl
May 18, 2008, 06:01 PM
My husband and I have been married since December. We dated for 5 years before we g ot married. When we were yonger we always fooled around. But we broke up and lost our virgentiy to other people. But I have nevere had an orgasum from sex. I have tried. I do however ehave one during foreplay but we have tried to not have foreplay and I would dry up.

JoeCanada76
May 18, 2008, 06:03 PM
Your normal. That is normal. Foreplay is very important. Practise makes perfect.

Synnen
May 18, 2008, 08:19 PM
A LOT of women never have an orgasm from sex. It just doesn't happen. The nerve endings aren't there. It kind of compares to trying to have an orgasm from rubbing your knees.

Can you self-stim WHILE having sex? Stimulating your clitoris during sex may be able to send you over the edge.

Otherwise--be happy you can have an orgasm from foreplay. Many women don't even have THAT.

Choux
May 19, 2008, 10:46 AM
Girl,

How about expanding your mind?

Perhaps, you are capable of more and different orgasmic reactions, but you have to put effort into developing yourself.

How does that sound to you? :)

missingpieces
Oct 14, 2008, 05:28 PM
This is kind of an old post, but still...

I couldn't have an orgasm from penetration... at first.

Have the orgasm from foreplay then have sex. Not only did this help my body to learn to have orgasms from penetration, but it also led to multiple orgasms every time we have sex this way.

Go from one O from foreplay to many Os from all of it.

*** This also eventually led to my boyfriend having multiple orgasms as well :D