Hello
My name is steve my GF broke up with me last Wednesday night after 22 years :( we have 2 giles one 19 and other 17 OK I start from the beginning we started going out with each other on my 18th things wear fantasic as they always are wean you 1st start to date someone you love anyway we had the 2 giles and wean they wear around 6 and 4 she had a fling but came down and told me the same night she started it ask me to move out so I did got my owen place and had full access to my kids well 1 1/2 years passed and we managed to get back together wich was grate we then moved to biger house we both got good jobs then I got made redudent then another job came up now I'm not saying I'm perfect no one is if they say they are then they are lying well I'm one of this people something new comes up then all my attn goes to that or if a mate needs me won't herstate to help anyway we moved to kent we wear OK for a bit then things started to go a little down hill wean I done my back in at work and was off for a year then was due to go back and the work doc said no another 6 moths will I just coudent live on ssp so I qwit and I was in and out of temp work for a bit . OK I like playing PC games to well . Maybe that's the prob never shod the love for her . OK I think I've worked it out but tell me if I'm wrong may be she was siting their and thourt this is not for me sitting hear for the reest of my life so maybe that's why she just up and left me?
I do love so much and I've realised that I have bean negleting her so now I have gave up PC games and started to turn over a new leaf even my kids have noticed hoping that she will give me a second chance can any body give me any answer to my plea

Not sure what you want to hear.. but you do have a history and grown children. There will always be a 'connection' but yeah, I do think she lost patience with you and feels she needs something different in life. If you don't want to loose her completely, then I suggest you respect this and accept it and hope that the ties you have will at least keep friendship in the future. Stay in close contact with the girls, but don't use them as messengers back and forth.. Enjoy the time you do get to share and don't give up hope entirely.

Give her the time she needs, let her look around. She might still decide that what is out there is not worth it but she has to find this out for herself.

Good luck.

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Be a good dad and let the wife be for a while. Are you still married? Who lives in that big house? Who pays for it?

The kids live with me and I have the house she just said she what's a new life for her seif so she has gone to her mums till she can get a place
And no we never got married as her mum has bean married 4 times and it all broke down . But as she saide she did not what to marry but I can understand her wean she saide no to marrige what with her mum exp

You may have dodged a bullet getting this dysfunctional person, Her (excuse?) out of your life, and make sure your children grow happy and healthy.

Well ty but have broke ice with her yesterday I spoke to her on phone nice and polite explained to her that if this is what she wants then I have to acept it I'm not going to beg you to come back but you no my phone numbers and you no wear we live but all I get is I'm not back I ned a new life but we can still be friends for the kids .

But I just can not sea how she can just throw 22 years away just like that
As I say in previous post I've realised my mistake and I've turned over a complete new leaf if only she can sea that my kids have but then they live with me well for now till they get their owen place but I just can not stop think about her I have bean going out allot more seeing friends haven't sean for ages dontno if that's good or bad but then I drive in to the car park just hoping to come home and she has come back to give me just that 2nd chance dose any one get a 2nd chance or is it defiantly over?? :(

No one can know what happens next in life, and dwelling on what if does no good, but to drive us crazy. Stay focused on what is in front of you, and be ready for ANYTHING. Spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically, these are the areas to get healthy in.