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Becksf13
May 18, 2008, 10:39 AM
I waz with my fella for 2 & half months. He is from Wales & Im from Birmingham I met through my friend who is his cousin. We were perfect together we got on so well had loads in coman & we really did love each other. Everything was going fine we had one little argument but sorted it until 2 weeks before we broke up, I had just spent the week at his & that weekend he went his brothers but when he came back & I phoned him something seemed wrong. The next night I couldn't get hold of him so I asked his sister if he was at home but I didn't mean anything by it. He never spoke to me for a week because he didn't think I trusted him then he came down for my birthday we were fine but something was still up & a few days later he broke up with me saying that he didn't want a girlfriend & that I was checking up on him & he felt cornered which I never meant to do & if he had just spoke to me about it we could have sorted it out. We are still good friends & just last week I said I still loved him & he said he didn't know how he felt. He said he's going to visit soon to see his family & he's been texting me its friendly but I feel thers something still there.

thegreatestviz
May 18, 2008, 11:23 AM
What you are dealing with is that you are being overprotective(or were being)

He was(is) a sensitive person and disliked it

Maybe he is not sure of the relationship you both were having

And I think you still haven't gotten over it
And maybe he has

So I think if would be good to wait for him for some more time and then see.. maybe by then you might have gotten over it...

talaniman
May 18, 2008, 11:26 AM
I
waz with my fella for 2 & half months
Slow that train down dear, your moving way to fast especially for a long distance relationship. Back off and let him breathe, and get something else in your life besides him and his attention. Your pushing him to define, and make time for this relationship, is overwhelming him. You barely know each other, and frankly the distance will work against you. Slow it down and stop expecting the sky so soon from this stranger. YES, STRANGER!

JoeCanada76
May 18, 2008, 11:27 AM
2 in a half months and one argument.

Honestly your better off not going back out with this person.

Ex is an ex for a reason, but you guys obviously did not even hardly know each other anyway.