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deprestemogurl9
May 15, 2008, 05:08 PM
OK me and my boyfriend were going on a date and we had a great time he said he loved me and I said OK he asked me why I didn't say anything back and I told him I wasn't ready so he said OK I will wait then I ask are you sure he said ill wit till the end of the earth for you and I said OK so the next day I didn't get a call from him and then 3 days past by and he never called me and I got tired of waiting so I called him and this woman answers I was wondering who it was but I didn't want to think it was another woman so I just hung up I was still worried so I went to his house this woman answerd the door and she was in his shirt and her hair was messed up and I started to cry and I slammed the door open and I saw him on the couch naked I thought he loved me! Why did he do that? Why did he lie?What do I do?:confused: :(

progunr
May 15, 2008, 05:13 PM
I believe his "I Love You" was a lame attempt to get you to reply "I Love You Too" which would bring him closer to being able to get into your pants.

When you didn't rush to exclaim your love back, he figured he better find an easier target, and seems he did.

Let him go, you are better off without him, you were right in your response, he was wrong in the way that he handled it.

liz28
May 15, 2008, 05:32 PM
That is horrible and it sad you had to see that, but now you see him for what he is and how much he loved you. You going feel hurt that natural but you need to heel and move on because he don't care about you. You deserve bettee and need someone who will not treat you that way and stay away from him, let whoever he was sleeping with have him.

talaniman
May 15, 2008, 05:41 PM
Chalk it up as a life lesson, and be glad you at least found out the truth, some guys are dogs, and will say anything to get what they want. You didn't cave to him, so it could have been much worse.